"my baby can read"

United States
February 26, 2009 8:40pm CST
ok.. im a big sucker for watching those informercials. , but as i was flipping, one really caught my eye. it's called "my baby can read". i sat there and watched the entire thing (and yes i'll admit the next time i seen it on i watched it lol) has anyone ever tried this yet? i mean, i've seen and read testimonials, but if im paying 200 to invest in my childs reading/social skills, i want this product to be worth it. i would pay anything for my child, but only if it's going to actually benefit him. so parents, has anyone tried this? does it really work? i know each child is different and will learn at different stages/ages, but THIS PRODUCT, is it worth it?? please let me know anything you know about it, good or bad... thanks a million~~
2 responses
@mammamuh (582)
• Sweden
27 Feb 09
Just as Sillychick said it's not that the baby learns to read in the acctual mening - since it's all about pictures. Here in Sweden we call it "Ordbilder" word - pictures. They learn to recognice the word it self - not the letters it's made of and even if they would know the word HALL, they couldn't see what the word ALL is like tey would if they wre reading. I wouldn't buy a product like that - even if I use wrod pictures to my youngest when it comes to names - I've done that will all of my children. It doesn't help the real reading (I don't think so at least) my oldest did read early (before she was 4), the middle one started to read at 5,5 and she was more exposed to word pictures since she was in daycare.
@mammamuh (582)
• Sweden
1 Mar 09
We've had those in Swede for years *lol* but I have not seen them in a long time. I have smart kids both top students - it has nothing to do when they start to read. Let children participate in things you do around the house instead and make him learn that way instead!
• United States
1 Mar 09
well since you are in sweden, you probably have never heard/seen the commercial for this product. yes, im sure some of it is memorization, but it's got flash cards, and dvds that show you the word/ hear the sound/ and see the action. i know im going to get mixed reviews on this, but isn't anything that helps your child learn productive in some way shape or form?
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
27 Feb 09
I have not tried this, and I wouldn't use it. Nor would I recommend it to anyone. I am very skeptical about whether it works. And even if it does, let me ask you this-- why does a baby need to learn to read? They are very busy focusing on things like sitting up, crawling, walking, learning first words, dealing with separation anxiety and learning how to know who is a person they can trust and who is a stranger. They learn with their senses- by feeling, touching and tasting things. They have no need to be learning to read. I understand that literacy is important, and I do believe that reading to babies and toddlers is a good thing. I think that exposing them to the written word is good, sing the ABC song, teach them, as part of their their regular play. But to use flash cards to make them memorize what a word looks like and what it represents is completely inappropriate. This does not teach babies or children the meaning of the written word, they simply memorize what certain things look like. The reason this is inappropriate, and I can say with confidence that this program does nothing more than help children memorize, is because babies and toddlers can not think in terms of intangible concepts. They are concrete thinkers. That means if they can't see it, touch it, taste it and smell it, it doesn't exist, and they don't understand it. That's why it's so hard to teach things like time, so instead we use references, like 'after nap' to help them understand. Like I said, I do believe literacy is very important, but I don't believe teaching earlier is the answer. Did you know that in countries with the highest literacy rates they don't even begin to learn to read until the age of 6 or 7? The reason is, in part, that children's minds are not capable of thinking in such symbolic terms as is required by reading. Another reason is that pushing so hard so young turns children off and makes them think of it as work and they don't want to do it. Instead of trying to make children learn to read at a young age, we should try to plant the seed to make them love to read, and to appreciate it's value. One way to do that is to read books to them constantly on subjects they love. If your child loves animals, get lots of books about animals, go to the library and look at more books, show them some information online about animals. If they ask questions you don't know the answer to, tell them 'lets go look it up in a book' or online. Let them see you enjoying reading. Show them how things relate to them. For example, label things in your home, your child's bedroom door with his or her name, put his name on pictures he draws. Write a shopping list and ask him what you need, and let him see you write it down. Send a birthday card to grandma or someone special, and ask him what you should write on it, then let him see you write his words, then show it to him and read it back to him. These are just a few ideas of more age appropriate ways to expose your child to reading. For more, here is an article with more ideas. http://www.helium.com/items/308832-teaching-a-toddler-to-read
• United States
1 Mar 09
i understand where you are coming from too. my child is 2, and he does understand alot of things, and he LOVES to read, and learn. All i want is the best start for my son, if i can get something to help him read/learn/write/talk a little better than he is now, and it's a productive way of doing it, no matter what the cost. i want him to be smart, and learning early is the best way to kick that off. im also teaching him about life and the world and strangers, and all that comes with teaching. i just want anything productive for him :)
• United States
1 Mar 09
Exposing early is good, trying to do too much early is bad. It pushes kids and makes them not want to do it. I don't care what the cost is- even if it was free, I wouldn't use it. In fact, if someone paid me to try it out on my child I would not do it. I believe that it can be detrimental to children long-term. I understand that you want the best for your child. But parents in the US these days are brainwashed to think that their children must do more, achieve more, at an early age in order for the parents to be considered 'good' parents. They are made to feel like allowing children to just be children is some form of neglect, or like they don't love their children if they don't sign them up for a dozen activities. And worse, if their children are not reading by the time they enter kindergarten, they are truly failures as parents. All of these things are not necessary, and are in reality hurting today's children. Instead, we as parents should just allow them to be children, and through their own natural curiosity they will want to learn. That is when we take the opportunity to show them how to do things, and how beneficial reading can be.