falling in love with your bestfriend...
@mystic888soul (390)
Philippines
February 26, 2009 10:18pm CST
hi everyone! is there anyone here who have fallen in love with their best friend? if yes, what did you do? did u tell him/her or just keep it as a secret?
what if your best friend loves someone else, will you still let him/her know that u have fallen for him/her even though there maybe a chance you will just get hurt?
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@golddrizzle71 (113)
• United States
28 Feb 09
I did my bestest guy friend and lucky for me, he felt the same way. We tried to date, but it never worked out =(. He broke up with me a couple of days after my birthday. We still talked sometimes, but not all the times. I wished I never told him how I felt, that way we could of been hanging out all the time now.
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
that's one thing im tryin to avoid..i am inlove with my bestfriend but it is pretty obvious that he is inlove with another girl...so all i can do now is to be tacit and pretend that everythin is goin fine..=(
@Jiqiangzhao (100)
• China
27 Feb 09
I don't have such kind of or similar experience. Actually it's a topic of love and friendship. First, whatever friendship or love, they are both valuable and should be cherished by the owners. Second, in some cases friendship can turn into love but it is difficult for us to see that the friendship is stil alive when love is gone. It is very common and normal for one falling in love with heror his best friend. Don't you know that friendship is the bedrock of love? And even that someone says there is friendship, there is love. Next, I believe there is real and pure friendship and meanwhile I Strongly insist on in most cases friendship having countless ties with love in large degree. The last but most important point is that love shouldn't be stoped by anything in any form of reason.
So,at last my suggestion is that take your courage to do what you want and say that I love you, my best friend!
@afeienglish (14)
• China
27 Feb 09
The story like that was ever happened on me,once a time,I think it's a happy,sweet and wonderful love,but it'a unfortunate for me.In my college time,a girl appear in my front,she is only a lovely girl in my eye,we studied and played together ,we are all enjoy that time and I couldn't believe that one day I will love her deeply.I know she was loving anotherboy.For a long time,I cheated myself to give her happiness.At last,I opened my heart and expressed my love to her,at the same time,I losed her as I knew.
So,I believe there isn't real and pure friendship between girls and boys,it's maybe love,if not,it's stranger.
@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
in highschool, I have experienced that. falling inlove with my dearest bestfriend. that until I felt that special feeling, I was trying to avoid her knowing she was so beautiful, thinking I didn't deserve her. Then after all that hurting and vain, all I would knoew was that, she also likes me that time. Huuu!! I'm so coward to say what I really feel and it was a big regrets! But then, until now, no one can compare the friendship she has shared to me.. :-)
