Fine with Your Break Up And move On?

Hi, It depends on situations & Personalities. But one thing is common,TIME is the Beat Healer. Life continues, so breakups INTENSITY goes down with time. Then it may be the TIME for a New Innings!! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

Just like the line of a song says: "Breaking a heart is hard to do", but then if your living in a relationship that full of pretensions, most of the time its better to let that love be blown away than staying with someone not healthy to grown up with. Break up is a long time recovery but you can move on I'm pretty sure. The best way to heal the wounds is learn to forgive .. i know its hard to forget nobody requires you to do so just take your time. If you failed on your first love never get tired of loving again as Heart created by God for us to nourished by so much LOVE.

if you're mad at the person at the time of the break up, i think it will be easier to forget about everything that you have gone through. my ex-boyfriend had another one and it made it all easier to forget the happy moments we have shared with each other because it was covered by anger and hate. later, the anger and hate vanished and i don't have any ill feelings anymore.

time heals all the wounds and after that we can see rainbow after the rain. after a break-up you're really in pain as if it's the end of the world.but be optimistic and see things in a light and positive way.move on..there's a lot of fish in the sea.. happy mylotting!

well for me, i never get into a relationship without thinking it through and i definitely do my all to keep the relationship so that i won't have any regrets in the future. so whenever a relationship ends it is really hard for me to move on because i have given it my all. it not uncommon for someone who had broken up with someone to feel and wonder if they have given it their all and sometimes they may even think that it was their fault that the relationship didn't work out. i know, i did. but what we have to remember is that whenever we have a relationship end and it was a relationship in which you have invested a whole lot of your time, love and emotions, it is really for us to just forget about it and move on right away. we have formed a deep connection and attachment to the person that's why its harder to pull away and just turn your back from it all and move on. if your ex had moved on right away, im sorry to tell you that he must not have the same intensity of emotions or deep connection with you as you have felt for him. that's why it was easier for me to let go and move on. as for compensating by getting into a new relationship, i think it is would be very much unfair to you and to your new boyfriend. unfair to your new boyfriend because he deserves to be loved as much as he loves you. he deserves a fair chance and he doesn't need any competition for your heart especially from your ex. he needs to be the one and only and the priority. if you feel like you are still not ready and still hasn't moved on, you should focus more on rebuilding yourself and making yourself whole again. like trying to regain your sense of being and once you feel complete and ready, then that would be the time that you have moved on and could defnitely be in a new relationship.