Do you feel irritated sometimes without any reason??
@blackeyedpeas (445)
India
February 28, 2009 1:34am CST
Well, it never happens with me, but my bf is going through all this. I don't know why he is so irritated these days. I asked him many times if he has any problem or something or if i have done something, he said no. He said it happens with him at times and he will be fine within few days. But i am worried about him he don't talk much on phone, sometimes i feel ignored but i know he is not doing it intentionally, i always try to make him happy and don't ask him again n again what happend, because he might get more irritated then.
I dont know how to behave in such situtation, please suggest something..
3 responses
@Archie0 (5636)
•
28 Feb 09
Yes it even happens to me many times. actually it happens when you are really frustrated over some things and if something were not going your way. We tend to loose the way we behave regualrly sometime just for no reasons there are no reasons for everything in life they just happens we dont like many times to be nagged by others even our own relatives. i really get irritated with small things sometimes. All yuo need to do here is give him some space let be on his own for some time. just dont ask or tell or even be with him for some time becaus in such times a person mostly would like to be alone but then he cannot tell you on his own as you might feel bad. but you should be reading him by now. so just find out whether he wants to stay alone or he is ok when you are with him. just try t give a bit of space to him.it wil work, and everything changes by time. dont worry
@blackeyedpeas (445)
• India
28 Feb 09
Hi Archie
thanks alot for your advise. It was very helpful.
God Bless!!
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
28 Feb 09
i get that way my is call bipolar and pmd that sure dont help me. but maybe he should talk to someone for real. it could be chemcail imbounce.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
28 Feb 09
Hello! Irritation does not come without any reason.Usually I feel irritated when I am under stress or I am tired.Your boyfriend might be having some problem with him relating to his office matter or any financial matter which he is unable to solve for which he is getting irritated for no reasons.So in that case you only cooperate him,don't ask him any question and give him foods sweetened with honey because honey is the best cure of stress.thanx.
