Loving someone you know you cant have

Hi! I feel bad for what happened to you. I know the feeling. I am married now but I still have someone else in my heart. As you say, someone i know i can't have anymore. And he's married now too. But that's how life is. You can't always have everything. Sometimes you just have to be content with what you have. You should try to find someone else or at least try to meet new friends so it can/may open new doors for you. Good luck!

hi gvannorman, I am so sorry to learn what happened to you and your wife.It is a very sad thing hearing stories like that.But just keep in mind that, there is a reason for everything.What is the reason why she left you? Think of the reason and from that, analyze if there will still be a chance for her to come back into your life. Do you have kids? I can say that if you already have kids, then it is one good reason for her to come back and build again a happy family. I just hope that there is still a reason for her to come back. However, if she had already made a decision and nothing can change her mind anymore, I think that it is the time for you to move on.It is very difficult to love a person whom you know you cannot have. You will just feel bitterness and your life will be full of sadness.It will be a torture on your side hoping for someone you know will not come back. Life is beautiful. Instead of thinking of her, why not give your attention to something else.Believe that God has a special plan for you. Just trust on him . I hope that someday, you can recover from the heartaches or your past.

Well I am just sad that you can't move on. I am just curios what caused the separation. Why would your wife wanted to separate with you? It is rather uncommon that wives are the ones that want a separation and it is usually the husbands that usually initiates separation. Well for now I think there is one thing that you need to do start loving yourself. If your separation did happen a long time ago it is high time to find some time loving yourself as your loving her is just like punishing yourself further and depriving yourself of the things you could hav enjoyed. You can see your wife has move on and is happy about herself I guess you deserve to be happy. Find yourself again with her around, it may be difficult, but that is the best thing to do right now.

Maybe you have to move on also with your life because your wife is doing so. Staying in the corner and still hoping for her to come back in your life even when you know for the fact that she will not is useless. Maybe you have done something wrong for her not to forgive you and give another chance.It is really the love for her that keeps you from not finding new love because it keeps you blind to see others.

I'm sorry to hear what happened to you. I did love a boy I knew I could not have relationship with him. I met my boyfriend and I think I love him more than my first dreaming boy. Plz prepare well for your love any time, and you never know when you meet your love one. Wish you happy!