HAVING SO MANY FRIENDS @ MYLOT: Advantages and Disadvantages

@mobhomeir (7565)
Philippines
March 1, 2009 7:27pm CST
As far as my residency here stays longer, as what I had observed the more friends coming in to me. I am so happy about it because at least I am already recognized here being an active member here. I got so many friends. My network of friends came from different people around the globe. BUT?( a big but..) The problem is I could not accommodate anymore all the topics and discussions coming in from them. The worst is,if I couldn't open it even just a day for some reasons..they would get stuck. It would just be fine if you surely have no other priorities for the next day or two. I mean, you have no other job to attend to except only mylotting the whole day and everyday.. How would manage this problem friend? Would you deny some of friend's request coming in to regulate it? I need your ideas about it...
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@winterose (39897)
• Canada
2 Mar 09
you are right it really gets to be a problem with too many friends, it is impossible to keep up with everything. What we all do is answer the discussions of the people who answer ours and not the ones on the list that never bother with ours at all. It is the only way to do it because it gets to be too much after a while.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Yes ma'm, that's I do now. Just select topics that I really have knowledge. I gave priorities to those of my selected friends and the rest is goodbye...thanks ma'm
@tudors (1556)
• China
2 Mar 09
yeah, so many friends, and i make the notify on so that all my friends will know what discussions i just think of and respond to me, also i can learn their latest news.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Yeah and that's my problem now since I could not anymore accommodate them all specially if i could not open my mylot even just for a day.....
@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
Hello mob. I also have lots of friends here in mylot. Not all of them could respond to my posts, just like me. I understand them. Sometimes, I could not respond to their posts not because I don't like to, but there are just topics that I don't have knowledge about. I just respond to the discussions of my interests and those that I know how to respond or comment.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Yes you're right joyce. That's what I do now. I would just pick those that I have knowledge but of course I give priorities to those friends I really know and the rest goodbye..thanks sister...
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
It's a valid question or should I say concern. Since you've been here long enough, I know that you've got lots of friends and the notifications coming from mylot about their discussions keep piling up. It may take a toll on you if you truly want to respond to everyone of them. I believe you have special friends that you want to prioritize probably. I'm not sure but that's how I plan to do in the coming days or months if I'm still here and gain new friends. You and your friend l2l are good friends but I must say that he's gone and never to return. May you find new trusted friends. Other friends that you may have like jai may not return too.