are you against teen abortion centers?

India
March 1, 2009 11:01pm CST
hi friends.yesterday me and my friend were having a very hot discussion about teen and their life style so eventually we came to those teen abortion centers.i live in india so i dont have much idea why it was founded in the first place .i was against such centers and he was against my view.i was saying that because of these teen abortion centers ,girls and guys dont worry much about being safe and always can end up at the center when things go wrong.he said sometimes these accidents happen to good people and so it is necessary.ofcourse it went on for hours .as both of has didnt have much idea about these things ,we eventually gave up.so r u guys against these abortion centers?by the way,i called the girls ,who frequently go to these places for abortion, by a word starting with S ending with T and ofcourse LU in between.happy lotting
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11 responses
@redhotpogo (4430)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Yes.. Making it easy to get rid of something you can't handle does not teach, responsibility, and takes away the rights of the parents to be parents. A life is not something you just toss aside. You're not ready for a kid then maybe you should be more responsible.
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• India
2 Mar 09
thanks my friend.my view exactly.this is one of my points during that discussion.
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• United States
2 Mar 09
I am wholeheartedly AGAINST this practice. I am pregnant with my 4th child. This one was TOTALLY unexpected. (The Depo shot, which is supposed to be foolproof, didn't work.) This child has been alive from day 1. The moment a child is conceived, life starts. Cells are alive. And they can't grow without life. That goes for animals or plants. I know there are a lot of people out there who disagree with me, and that is fine. We just have to agree to disagree. But for me, abortion is wrong. I could have been aborted myself. Instead, my biological one decided to give birth to me and then give me to a family who wanted me. I am very thankful that she did that. Adoption is a wonderful thing. And there are so many people out there that would do anything to have a child.
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• India
3 Mar 09
i do agree with u there but adoption is another matter as i read about too many girls in those adoption centers being abused by the people out there.that even worser than abortion.
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• United States
2 Mar 09
Abortion question... I wonder if this topic is going to get a lot of responses. Abortion is a really touchy subject and it seems that every time someone talks about it online there's usually a HUGE debate about it. I really don't know if I support it or don't. In a way it can make the parents life easier, because sometimes the mom could have been raped or something and then the child would just go away. But that is SAD and in a way very very bad. The child never experienced life, but it was still alive. How can someone say if this is right or wrong?
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• India
2 Mar 09
if u want to know a funny thing,we discussed about abortion not because it involves killing of an unborn child.we are debating about the things that lead to pregnancy in the first place.lol
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@hopejordan (3562)
• Australia
2 Mar 09
hi there stardustcdsd abortion full stop is wrong wrong wrong i never knew my mum had one until my dad told me i am a single mother with two and i would never do it its murder to me but my mum was not married at the time she did have me and my brother take care happy mylotting
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@goldeneagle (6774)
• United States
2 Mar 09
I am, for the most part, TOTALLY against abortion. There are some times when an abortion may be the way to go, especially if carrying the child will SERIOUSLY endanger the life of the mother beyond what the normal risks of pregnancy are, but as long as things appear to be going smoothly, and both baby and mother appear to be healthy, abortion should not be an option. I say she should deliver the baby, then give it up for adoption to parents who will love it if she doesn't want to try to keep it for whatever reason. The reason she may not want the baby is unimportant, but at least give the baby a chance to live and have a happy life...
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@kirei24 (252)
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
im always against abortion thing. i consider it killing.
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@maximax8 (30581)
• United Kingdom
2 Mar 09
I am against teen abortion places. I believe that life begins at conception and the baby is innocent. I hope that teenagers are responsible in a serious relationship. I would rather that they would wait but if not think they should use protection. I know that no form of birth control is 100%. I think that the sort of teen girl that has lots of abortions is acting in a very bad way. Many of the ladies or teens that have an abortion regret their decision afterwards. Some of them get depressed years later. Teenagers are young and could have an abortion that turns out to be the worst mistake of their life. I recommend that people look at You Tube to find out more about abortion procedure. I believe that abortions are horrible and I wouldn't ever have one. I hope that you are enjoying your time on My Lot.
@maximax8 (30581)
• United Kingdom
2 Mar 09
Just to add my answer would be for the teen to keep her baby or have the baby adopted to a loving family.
• India
3 Mar 09
thanks for the response and i am enjoying my stay here at mylot now not cuz of the number of responses but because of the quality of these responses.have a good day.
@sharay (2769)
• India
2 Mar 09
My answer is both "yes" and "no" Our parents would always want to discipline us and want us to take some responsibilities, but does this happen always, of course no...so, what would be the reaction of the parents then, are they going to just ignore you for you havent listened to them, wont they keep giving us another chance (with some punishments if needed) until we realize...its the same way, i dont think one can just walk into these centers and ask for an abortion, there might be a big hardship involved in getting it done, a lot of physical and mental stress (which is in a way a punishment for them to rectify their mistakes), and the sad part is, as you said, this would be of great advantage for the "S**TS", for which reason it should be banned
• India
3 Mar 09
good to see someone with my view of certain issues.thanks but i have to check the procedures they follow in those centers.happy posting.P.S.do people give the best response for the best reply or to replies which they find agrees with their view?
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@sharay (2769)
• India
3 Mar 09
can give for both, depends on how you feel, i sometimes give best response to the person whose view is just opposite of mine if their point is valid
• United States
2 Mar 09
I am completely against abortions, period. I got pregnant at 16 and that was never even on my mind. Even though the father of my son asked me to give him up after he was born, I would much rather give him up than my child. I think if you are responsible enough to play, then you are responsible enough to have the child. An unborn baby has a heart beat at an early stage and I think that is murder. I know there are a lot of people against me on this one but that is how I feel. If I would have decided to have an abortion with my oldest, I never would have known that joy of being a mother and I love him so much. He is 8 yrs old and I have learned a lot of being a "grown-up" from him. My mom was the same age. I do know of some people that have had abortions and I hate that. My cousin was almost an abortion. I don't know what I would have done without her in my life. I think kids should give the child up for adoption before they ever consider abortion. Even the rape victims should do adoption. There are tons of people that can't have children that would love a child to call their own.
• India
3 Mar 09
well done felicia.i appreciate wat u said and wat u have done.its girls like u who keeps me from losing my respect for women.have a great day and enjoy ur life.
• United States
2 Mar 09
i am very much aganist teen abortion centers. i think that if a teen gets pregant, and they don't want the kid, then they should put the child up for adoption. why should the child loose their lives just because the teen mother went and got pregant. a lot of teen woman use abortions as a form of birth control and that is not right. i think that the children should be adpoted where they can go to a family that will love and care for them. there is no reason to kill them
@Archie0 (5175)
2 Mar 09
yes ofcourse i am against it anyone would be,. because it is illegal ofcourse and top of it its not the thing that should be en couraged to because then more than old mommies we might find all teens becoming mothers soon