Do you choose your friend or just accpet anybody as your friend ?

Indonesia
March 2, 2009 3:12am CST
I mean, did you see that he/she is a good person ? Is he/she a honest person? Is he/she a generous person? Is he/she kind of people that try to make use of other people ? Tell me your opinion about this, thanks.
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6 responses
@5mayday (1053)
• Norway
2 Mar 09
I do accept anyone as my friend, as long I can see they really want to be friend with me. But for most of the time I am too kind, and some will take advantage.
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
Yeah I have experienced one of my friend kind of "betrayed" me, that's a lesson for me to be careful when choosing friend.
• China
2 Mar 09
of course i will choose a good person and who has the same hobbies with me ,then we have a lot to talk when play together.i won't choose a friend who has had character ,this need times to understand.i am good to my friend if they're good to me ,i am this kind of person ,i will never do bad things to my friend ,also common friend.
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
You should choose friend who has character, you know, sometimes once you can understand him/her and get close to him/her, they will be the closest friend of yours.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
2 Mar 09
Ya definitely I see the personality character and how mixing he/she is then only I accpet him/her as a friend because friend ship is the only relation which is choosen by us and the rest relation has made by god or our family member so we should very carefull at the time of choosing a friend
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
Yes thats important for choosing a friend. Thanks for your respond !
@Haoyijia (67)
• China
2 Mar 09
I think it a very good topic for us to talk about. I usually accept all kinds of people as friends arround me at first. There can be difficults deciding which kind of friends are mostly suitable for you. However time can tell. I would try to get to my new friends at first. There can be a time that I know suddenly exactly whether she or he is my best friend. So then I would know exactly how to treat this friend. Treat him as my best friend or just as a plain friend. There can be some faults in it of course, and I sometims become so regretful that I have lost a good friend. It's just my exprience of making friends. and there is one, that I never offer my help if I am not sure whether he is doing right or wrong.
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
yeah, choosing your friend sometime a really hard thing to do, for me I will let the time decide whether he/she is true friend or no. And when something bad happen where I really need help from my friend, I can see which one is my true friend.
@pickwick (858)
• India
2 Mar 09
I dont accept just anyone as a friend.The first quality I want in a friend is that the friend should be trustable and kind.I avoid people who are outspoken andrude.I also avoid accepting people who like to gossip as a friend.
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
Quality over quantity, right ?
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
i choose my friends, i prefer to have just very few friends than have so many so-called friends i hardly know. there are some people who are consistent on what they show you, like always greeting you or trying to talk to you, there are some people who are only good to you one day, but most of the time, they ignore you.i observe people and those who stay long are real friends
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
Yeah you right, better be few friend where they all care about you than many friend that will leave you if you need them the most.