What will you do?

@sunita64 (6469)
India
March 2, 2009 9:33am CST
After tolerting lots of neglect from your partner, You have firmly decided that now things are over between him and you, and then you melt down when you listen to his voice. Again the guy disappears from life and forgets you, then what you will do?
6 responses
@chabawel (329)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
You know the saying, Once is enough, twice is too much? Don't make it a third time that your partner just leave and forgets YOU. You're not his/her toy that he/she can play with. You alone can decide whether to make it stop or have this person step on you all over again. You're not stupid, right?
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
4 Mar 09
Definitely not. thanks for the comment
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Change your phone number so you don't have to hear the sound of his voice when he decides to show up again. Move on with your life...keep busy so that you don't have time to even think about him but, most of all, when/if he shows up again REMEMBER the hurt he's caused you and stay strong. People don't change so stop believing lies. Good luck.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
3 Mar 09
I feel you are absolutely right.
@Rachelg (221)
• United States
2 Mar 09
I found that when I start feeling this way, it helps if I start concentrating on me, and what I can do to make myself feel better about me. As times I have tried new exercise programs, or daily homemade facials, manicures and pedicures. It helps and gives you alot of self confidence in the process.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
2 Mar 09
Well self confidence is one thing I am not short of. Even I do meditate and things are very peaceful.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Before doing such thing like that, if I were in your shoe I would talk to my partner and let him know what I felt with the relationship. And give another chance for both of you and your relationship. Let him give his reasons why he is behaving like that. If things does not work out, I guess that's the right time for you to decide what to do.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
2 Mar 09
I have discussed and his casual answer is that he had lots and lots of work to do so he could'nt find time.
@ninaluv (338)
• Nigeria
2 Mar 09
I know it's difficult, but you have to try to forget him, and get a life.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
2 Mar 09
Yes I am trying and wish that he doesnt call again.
@ana31798 (41)
• United States
2 Mar 09
I say take the time that he is away and do things on your own and forget about him. You don't want to spend your life thinking that he is going to dissappear and when or if he will come back.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
2 Mar 09
Yes you are right that is what I must do.