Should woman give up her career for her lover?

China
March 3, 2009 2:03am CST
From a traditional viewpoint,woman will come home eventually.So it is reasonal for woman to devote herself to family.But as the development of era and advance with times,according to abilities, interest,development,woman is divided into three types:family style,career style,pleasure style.Although modern woman puts more importance on love,love is no longer her entire life.Few women are willing to become a fulltime wife.Trodition concept is in a embarrassing position now.Should woman give up her career for her lover? When I am married,I will not become a fulltime wife.I love family,also I love my career.I want both of them.hehe^
1 person likes this
5 responses
@ryuvinta (153)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
as a woman, when we already have a husband, family and children, we have a new responsibility to take care of our family, give them nice education etc. but when we also have nice career, we sometimes ignore our family. it is difficult to arrange the time to our family and our career. i have a plan when i already have children and family, i will resign from my career and start a new career that i can do at home. i can take care of my children and i can also earn money from my new career.
• China
4 Mar 09
Yes,maybe that's true.I do not have a husband,family and children,so I do not feel the responsibility inside.Really it is difficult to arrange the time to our family and our career.The idea that you start a new career thar you can do at home is very good.Maybe when I am married,I will do like you,hehe^ Can I ask you a question?what 's the new career that you can do at your home.
@jofeli (504)
• Indonesia
3 Mar 09
I think from the moment I start a relation with man, the one I desire the most is being a good wife, devote all my life taking care of the household stuffs, my husband, and my kids. Once I get married, I leave behind all my careers. I think it's a matter of call, some women prefer to be career woman, and some are to be housewives. I don't mind at all, if women work, but it's just not my call. So here's what I am, married, still have no children, being a wife for a great husband... I'm happy with it.. So I just hope that you make a good decision, for it's your life, and your happiness depends on your own. Thanks...
• China
4 Mar 09
Yes,it's just a matter of call.Whatever career woman,or housewife,It's just up to ourselves.I am very glad to hear that you are happy with being a good housewife,that's fine.Happiness is most important part in our life. Good time,friend.
• India
3 Mar 09
Woman should neither give up the carrer nor leave the lover if she really loves him,and woman know how to manage both things simultaneously.Career and family both are important for life so a good woman is the one who can make a balance between both of them.
• China
4 Mar 09
Yes,make a good balance between love and career,it is a good idea.
@snowcat46 (2322)
• United States
5 Mar 09
Never. If she does give it up, that doesn't mean her lover will stay with her. Nor should she be required to. If he requires her to, he isn't going to stay with her anyway. He's already proved that. By demanding it, he's proven he wants it all his way. A woman will be happier if she keeps the career, if that's what she wants. If one has to give up a dream, just to get another dream, they will probably lose both.
@hollysun (97)
• China
4 Mar 09
Hi,i agree with you very much.Love is no longer women's entire life,So,I wouldn't be a fulltime wife in future.LOl...Nowdays,we are in a time of equality between the sexes,women should have their own career and independent status in the society.A good and successful women shuold do well job both in and out of home. It's unfair for a women who have to give up her loved career for her husband and can only stay at home and do the never-ending housework.Of course,if you like this ,you can do it ,but ,if you feel aggrieved,try to do what you like to do,don't put yourself at home day to day.