To Whom You Show Your Tears?
By dik_an
@dik_an (475)
Malaysia
March 4, 2009 4:38am CST
Hello lotter!
How are you today? I'm little bit sad because I did not do well in my quiz today, now it's ok for me. Sometime, if I feel sad and want to cry, I just hide my self in my bedroom. No one know if I'm crying that night LOL. Sometimes, I just turn on my laptop and write my feelings. Normally I will not show my tears to my parents or my family, but I do not know how could I show it to my husband LOL. How about you? Do you also feel shy to show your tears?
3 responses
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
4 Mar 09
like you, i often cry myself to sleep. and yes, alone.
i try not to show my sadness to others. maybe to my close friends but not often. I don't want to burden them too much. They too have their own set of problems.
And i never show them to my parents. I don't want them to worry over nothing. Half the time i shed tears over nothing. Just in one of my emo moods.
So whenever i cry, i'd just hide under my comforter and cry my heart out using my pillow as a silencer.
@3cardmonte (5098)
•
4 Mar 09
I dont show my tears to anyone, I never have really. I am an emotional person, but privately. People tend to take advantage if they think you are emotional and many people see it as a sign of weakness.
@takezoanzhari (123)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
Well maybe you could cry on your best friend shoulder that understand you very much, because they will be keep the secret and anything you tell him/her. Personally, if I have something that really make me sad or depressed, I will lock myself in my room and try to think about it, think why is this happening, what is the positive side, and thing like that. And sometime, I will listen to some loud music and then sing together with that song until I feel better.
