UGH!! I am so annoyed!

@stacyv81 (5904)
United States
March 4, 2009 8:03am CST
My boyfriend has this "friend", (I am using that term VERY loosely here) And he comes over to help my boyfriend restore his car. He brings his baby over amd expects me to watch him (now I have 3 of my own) And I could see watching him and he works on the car, but he tells me he has no money, and then gets my boyfriend to give him some, you think I get any? NO! So, I am expected to watch his kid, (he's 8 months). While he is out back with my boyfriend, going to the store asking my boyfriend to buy him, beer, food, and even magazines, and THEN asking for money, and THEN going home and telling his girlfriend and his mom, that he didnt give him anything. This guy does drugs, pills, and other things I am sure, so Now those people think my boyfriend is a horrible person. This guy comes over crying allo the time about everything, he's losing his house, he's losing his car, nothing is right....... Yesterday, he walks in my house, (my boyfriend wasnt here, but they guy was working on the car out back) Looking for a book for the car, that tells him something about it, a shop manual. So, he comes in and cant find it, I dont know where it is. "Aw, man now we cant fix the car...blah. blah, blah" And then looks down he has tracked wet mud from my door all over my dining room and kitchen., (I just mopped, btw) So I tell him I'll get it, just go. My boyfriend calls me and I told him, that he needs to tell his friend not to come in and get loud with me, So he did and they guy comes in CRYING!!!!! UGH!!!! I am so annoyed with this guy! Thanks for listening to my rant! =)
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@chabawel (330)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
You have the reason to be mad at your boyfriend's friend. And your boyfriend didn't even bother to ask you if it's okay that you babysit while his friend fix his car. It's not fair to you. And it's your house. You have more right to get mad about your bf's friend coming and messing up your house. You can confront your boyfriend about his friend. And if he choose to side with his friend, then it's up to you whether you kick them both out of your life. Being a friend is one thing, but to tolerate the bad habits of another person is another. Find the courage to fight for your SPACE. And if your boyfriend truly values your relationship, he'll make a way to work things out for you and his friend. So you are not involve in your bf's friend life. Take care.
@stacyv81 (5904)
• United States
4 Mar 09
exactly....my boyfriend is getting fed up too, I am definitely saying something to him today if my boyfriend doesnt....=) thanks