How to avoid fights wid ur partner wen ur disgusted ??

Sometimes when me and my husband are starting to argue I remind myself that the last thing we need is to fight. I sit and rethink the problem, and find a solution. If it's something he done and I'm just so mad I don't even want to look at him, I think of good times to help me forget. This way we can talk about it when it's a better time and I'm more calm. The worst thing a person can do is to say, well yeah somethings wrong but we'll talk about it later. It leaves the other person wondering and then they really don't leave you alone out of fear of what your going to say. If you just can't get around not telling them, then I would take a deep breath and remember you don't want to say something you can't take back. Talk calmly, and say, I'm a little aggrivated right now. I love you and I don't want us to argue so can you please let me think about this just a minute to clear my head and then I'll tell you what's wrong. Just don't do it while driving.