What will you do if you hurt your best friend feeling?
@takezoanzhari (123)
Indonesia
March 4, 2009 4:08pm CST
Well, sometimes you unintentionally hurt your friend. And then your fr best friend started to keep distance from you. What will you do if this happen to you? What is your opinion?
5 responses
@rakeshlalwani (320)
• India
6 Mar 09
I just hug after sometime.
If i get realise that the mistake is mine of hurt to my friend, then just i hug to my friend wihtout any ego and say sorry dear.
There is main EGO problems who makes distance to many friends.
If all throughout ego the all friends are forever.
@takezoanzhari (123)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 09
But you know, sometimes it's hard to say sorry to our friend, we sometimes feel embarassed to say that. (or its just me that feel that way ???)
@thecrazyjogger (3178)
• India
6 Mar 09
well i would stay away from him/her for a while n then cool down n let him knw that wht he did hurt me
n try to make him understand n not make him do it aagain
happy lottin and have a nice day!
@takezoanzhari (123)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 09
Maybe staying away for a while can help, I can try it if it happen to me again.
@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
If I were in that kind of situation what I am going to do is first I will ask my best friend what's the problem? Then next I am going to fix and analyze the situation but if it doesn't work then I will give my best friend a time to think and realize everything. I will say sorry and I will still be friends with him/her.
@takezoanzhari (123)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 09
You right, beside apologizing to our friend, we should find out what make him/her keep a distance from us, so that such a thing will not happen again.
@woundedeagle13 (137)
• India
5 Mar 09
well as far as i a concerned i will definitely apologize for my mistake and ask my friend to forgive me for my behavior. I won't let my ego take over my feelings because there should not be any place for ego in true friendship. I will definitely try to communicate with my friend and try to solve the misunderstandings between us.
@takezoanzhari (123)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 09
You right, friendship over ego. We should be ready to apologize anytime to our friend if we do something bad to them.
@takezoanzhari (123)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 09
Yeah, we should let him/her decide because its our mistake from the beginning.
