Are you a Good listener?
By ava152007
@ava152007 (641)
India
11 responses
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I think I'm a good listener. I just love listening to people about their stories. The only problem is sometimes I just don't know how to react or what will I say. If someone needs somebody who'll just listen and won't say a word, just nod, that person is looking for me. :-
@ava152007 (641)
• India
6 Mar 09
Hi
Thanks for your responce!
Keep listening good things. Good for you if someone search for you to tell something.
@FehrLady (51)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I believe so, I am a good listener. It is because I am always amused to listen stories and experiences of anybody. There are much more to learn through listening.
@makeupartisteileen (653)
• Singapore
13 Mar 09
i think i'm a good listener ,but when people angry or sad no matter how you advise him/her they won't listen..but they will feel better when they tell you all her/him sadness
@ava152007 (641)
• India
14 Mar 09
Hey Welcome to mylot!!
Yes They feel better if you r good listener,
Thanks for sharing! Happy myloting!!
@here2watch (99)
• India
5 Mar 09
i am a good listener but cant withstand the discussions which is not relevant. I think sumtimes being gud listener is also bad because all my friends come and keep telling stories... :-)
@ava152007 (641)
• India
6 Mar 09
Hi....
Thanks for your responce, Listening is good habit so keep listening to good things.
Good luck
@luyanling (14)
• China
5 Mar 09
I think I am a good listener too. Especially when my goods friends in a bad mood. I can at their side to accompany.I think maybe they can feel more comfortable when I become a listener.
@ava152007 (641)
• India
6 Mar 09
Hi
You are right! When our freinds know we are good listener then they feel free to talk to us. Thanks for your responce
@lovetobeme (215)
• Canada
10 Mar 09
i would say that I'm a good listener. i think listening is an important virtue to have.you always learn more and can respond better to people when you take the time to listen
@ava152007 (641)
• India
12 Mar 09
Hi
Really listening is good habit, as you said to learn we have to listen more then only we will succed, Thanks for responding.
Happy mylotting
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
5 Mar 09
I don't think I am a good listener. When I have questions while I am listening to others, I am about to interrupt the speaker asking about my question at once. I don't have inborn talent for listening, I need to control myself very much to listen to other until they finished their talking.
@ava152007 (641)
• India
6 Mar 09
Hi
Thanks for your responce.
very bad, Try to control more then you can buiold the habit of listening.
@sharay (2769)
• India
5 Mar 09
Just opposite to you....i dont like to talk much or listen much...but if its an interesting topic, i may for a while, but talking and listening about unwanted topics and that too at the wrong situation irritates me a lot that the next time i see that person, i hide myself
@ava152007 (641)
• India
6 Mar 09
Hi
Thanks for your responce!
Yes, Its very difficult to listen if that subject is not interesting.
Sometime it irritates.
@ankit_620 (496)
• India
5 Mar 09
yes i can say that i am a good listner. I have a lot of patience in myself.
But there are times when get fed up or feel bored when listening to something
in which i am least interested.
@ava152007 (641)
• India
6 Mar 09
Yes you are right, We feel bored if the subject is not intersting. When you have a patience then you can listen the subject fot some time. What do you say?
Thanks for your responce.
@mrgavediger (73)
• United States
7 Mar 09
The best way I found out that I was A good listener was when Iwas digging graves/Now it because I am a firefighter hero's job is tough ,when mom kids are crying, talking, screaming, all at the same time it's a sad time for everyone.
