can we do whatever we want

India
March 6, 2009 8:00am CST
can we do whatever we want so as to enjoy our life in a country like india.Im happy go lucky gal but some times i really cant do the things what i really like to do keeping family, relatives, society etc etc in mind.Ofcourse for my fun or enjoyment I will not disturb others life or harm anyone but stillll got to be in limits. if we start thinking about others can we really enjoy life the way we want.
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• United States
6 Mar 09
there has to be limits, but if you trully want to be happy, you have to do what you want. if it ruffles feathers, then so what. i bet if you think back, they've done something to ruffle your feathers at some time too. just live your life the way you think you is right, and everyone else will or won't approve. but it won't matter to you, because you are not asking for approval.
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• India
7 Mar 09
yeah i know my limits n im not asking for approval as well so it doesnt matter unless n untill im hurting or disturbing someone
• India
7 Mar 09
i mean unless n untill im "NOT" hurting someone
• India
8 Mar 09
well..do u think if u can make others happy making ourselves unhappy...is in d end really friutfull..can u make a person truely happy by doing something forcebilly to make him/her happy..??i guess not..coz in d end they will realize n would ultimately blame u for it...as that won't make them contented.suppose u marry someone..bcozur parents wanted u to do so..but u won't never b able to give him a happy married life unless n untill u love him.sacrifices made not from d heart has no value.Offcourse u can;t alwaz have ur way...u need to care for others also in life..that's y we indians can still live in a family..n ur asking this question.we should do wat our heart wants to do..but we also must b prepared to face n handle all d consequences too..one's decision is one's n one must also b able to face all d results of his/her decision..good or bad.
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• India
9 Mar 09
hey well said n i totally agree wid u
• United States
10 Mar 09
whatever you want to do is you choice. if you want to kill someone do it, if you want do something fun do it, but remember that you have to accept the consequence wheter it is good or bad. here's a quote that Lex Luthor used " What makes a man a man is not the chocies he makes, but what he gives up for them" In this case its your choice what you want to do with your life but remember what happens after you do whatever you do don't blame anyone for what happen to you
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