Do you suspicious your spouse?

@mermaidivy (15404)
United States
March 6, 2009 2:00pm CST
Do you suspioucs your spouse after he/she has done something wrong once? Do you think he/she will do bad stuff again after the 1st time? What do you feel when your spouse suspicious you? How can you remove the history of him/her doing not good stuff? I'm very curious to know, please share with us! :-)
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@tea512 (687)
• United States
6 Mar 09
my first wife was a cheater and I never got passed it. We seperated and when we tried again I spent so much of time tracking her every move it destryoed any chance of reconnecting. It was probably for the best as if you cannot get passed it then eventually it would have gotten worse.
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
6 Mar 09
I'm sure you felt very stressed when you were tracking what she did all the time, it must have been a night mare...
@tea512 (687)
• United States
6 Mar 09
The funny part was my firends and family kept telling something was wrong and I just could not see it. It was not until I left that bad situation, rising above so to speak could I see just how dumb and blinded I was
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
9 Mar 09
Well, I'm glad that you are out of that relationship with the cheater now. THanks for sharing!
• United States
7 Mar 09
My husband hasn't ever given me reason to be suspicious. Well, other then those cute girls he works with flirting with him, or the cutie that stopped him in the mall to admire his swords he'd just bought. Seriously, we talk all the time so I know we'll never have any issues such as that. I think that is what occurs in relationships that do have these issues. I feel it is a failure in communication. Anora
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
9 Mar 09
That's good to hear about that :-)
• United States
18 Jun 09
Mermaid- Thanks for the BR. It's a good discussion thread! Have a wonderful weekend. Namaste-Anora
@weemam (13377)
8 Mar 09
I have been married to my best friend for 48 years , we chat about everything , discuss everything and always put each other first , I would never think or immagine him cheating on me nor me on him , we are really lucky I think :) Wee xx
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
9 Mar 09
Oh that's sweet! Thanks for sharing! :-)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
a cheater once is always a cheater! for me once he cheated its end of the relationship no more coming back! coz when i love him that means i trust him but eventually he cheated i cannot trust him anymore and so i cant love him. we will just make a hell out of our life if we stayed together! everytime he would be out.. i'll be thinking where he is and who is with him. so i'd rather move on and have a peace of mind!
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
9 Mar 09
Thanks for sharing! :-)
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
7 Mar 09
Hi, suspicion is that weed when enters into any relationship, will make Hole in it. Most of the time Suspicion is Biased,have no evidence.Even then we fall pray. It is a Ridiculous feeling when Your near & dear one is suspicious about You. It slowly magnifies andspoils the Relationship as a whole. Suspicion is opposite of Trust,on which Relation Builds. so it is bound to destroy the relation. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
9 Mar 09
Thanks for sharing! :-)
• United States
6 Mar 09
I have had a guy do this to me when I didn't give him a reason to be suspicious of me. Some people are naturally "blamers." If you can't trust your significant other, then let them go so they can be with someone who really does value them. If someone does you wrong once, and they apologize and ask you to fogive them, you should forgive them. If you are unable to, then YOU are the one with the problem; not them.
@mermaidivy (15404)
• United States
6 Mar 09
Thanks for sharing!