Who Is The Problem Solver?

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In your home, in your relationship, who is the problem solver? In my house, I am normally the one who everybody looks to to solve the problems. Whether it is a financial problem, a schedule problem, a conflict among the kids, almost any problem we have, the family really relies on me to solve it. I try to discuss things with my husband, because I feel that his input is just as important as moine, but more often than not, his rtesponse is, "Whatever you think is best, honey, you know what needs done better than me." Okay, it is nice to hear that once in a while, but normally, I really do want to know his opinion and what he thinks should be done. I want my kids to try to calmly settle their own disputes. I don't mind being the one everyone goes to, but I would really like for them to do a bit more on their own. So, in your home, in your relationship, who is the problem solver?