How can I comfort my younger sister?

By Alex
@venchaul (541)
China
March 7, 2009 1:31am CST
Hi,everyone! Could you help me? I don't know how to comfort my younger sister when she is in trouble at school. Her roomates said something bad about my sister becuse they were jealous of her when she got the first place in her classrom. My sister cried when she heard the rumour, in fact she is friendly to his roomates. My question is how to persuade my sister to keep calm and go on being friendly to his roomates and learn to deal with relationships between classmates and roomates.
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3 responses
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
I guess the best way to get rid of her annoying room mates is to transfer to another room or dormitory... you know, if i were in her shoes, i would leave my old place and look for another place and be with wonderful room mates.. it's really annoying that there are people like that, people who are trying to pull you down, so pathetic! just be there for your sister, make her happy, guide and support her, etc...
@venchaul (541)
• China
7 Mar 09
You are so kind to give me response to be in my sister's shoes! Thank you so much! I will call her and ask if she would like to transfer, after all she has a lot of good teachers there! I have given you a rate for my thanks! Good luck!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
7 Mar 09
Well, I am sorry to hear about her sadness. Is it possible that she can maybe change roommates. This may help her. I know that if it was me, I would do this.. And she could also talk to the dean and let him/her know what is going on.. She could just deal with it by ignoring it and not paying them any attention. What a great brother you are to be so concerned for your sister. She is very lucky.. She may also may want to consider moving to another room. This may help. I hope that what rumors that they put on her is not all over the campus. I am assuming that your sister is in college. I hope that everything works out just fine for your sister. Just keep praying for her, and God will take care of her enemies.
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@venchaul (541)
• China
7 Mar 09
Thank your for your sincere consideration! My sister now is in a high school and she is getting along well with her classmates. I don't know why her roomates say sth bad about her. I will talk with her with your suggestion! I appreciate you so much! I've given you a rate! Good luck to you!
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
7 Mar 09
it is hard to be good friends with jealous poeple.in my experence.i never had long friendship with such people.so ask you younger sister don't care too much for that.it is not worth to do that.good luck
@venchaul (541)
• China
7 Mar 09
Yes, I agree with you! I will transfer your advice to my sisiter! Thank you so much! good weekend!