Is there an easy way of moving on?

Philippines
March 7, 2009 6:57pm CST
its been twice that it really made me so broken.. Why can't I just forget everything to lessen the hurting feeling.. Can'[t there be any easy way to move on? It always takes me months before I can fully move on.. is it really that hard?
4 responses
• Philippines
8 Mar 09
theres no easy way in moving on unless ur not ready to let go and accept the fact that the one u loved is not the person meant for u. all u need to do first is accept ur situation and then let go. so how can u do that? well read some books, listen to the music, go out with your friends, and then clean ur room, make some schedule and activities all by yourself. thats it.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
8 Mar 09
Hi, I can understand U r very Sensitive. Take the ROOT problem, can U do something where this break-up issue donot come? No. Then,why to involve Urself to such relationship,where there is fear of Break-up(uncertainity) & upsetting U,(for months)?can it be Avoided?Possibly,Yes! Think it over. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
• China
8 Mar 09
Everybody has the same experience as yours. Perhaps you should move your interest to other filed, such as sports. That may be helpful for you.
• Australia
8 Mar 09
Well did this particular thing happen for a reason? There's no actual way you can "get over it", it's normal what your feeling, and it does take a period of time to get over it. Just smile, and enjoy the life your living! Because no one deserves a total loser, breakups happen for a reason.