perfect relationship?

@milagre (1272)
Portugal
March 8, 2009 8:15am CST
J. Aniston "told there`s no perfect relationship". I totally agree with her. The problem is to stablish the bounderies. . My partner is not perfect, neither i am nor our relationship. Would you stay in an relationship full of imperfectiosn just because you fear the faillure, fear of being alone, or because of chidren or any other strong reason? do you belive in perfect relationships?
4 responses
@agmamayo (804)
• Philippines
8 Mar 09
Nothing is perfect in this world and you can't really find a perfect relationship, no matter how long you have been with each other and known everything about yourselves. There will always be some small misunderstanding,and petty quarrels. No matter how tough you both have gone through as long as you love each other, you respect each other and you have fear in God, you dont have to worry about being imperfect to one another. The important parts of a good healthy relationship is love and trust. No matter how imperfect both of you maybe if you have love and trust in your hearts, you will conquer all tests in life. I don't believe in perfect relationships, its just a description of a good combination but does not necessarily mean perfect in itself, as if no troubles at all. There is no perfect human being on earth so you can't really say you can have a perfect relationship.
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@milagre (1272)
• Portugal
8 Mar 09
Love, respect and trust is all you need to go over the imperfections, then. I agree with you, but if one of the "ingredients" fail, all will fall down i guess. Txs for posting
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
8 Mar 09
Hi, U've a point.Like Absolute,there is NO Perfect. It is true in case of Relationship too.& all of us accept this.But what is our endaeveour in establishing/strengthening Relationship?We want to bridge the existing gaps,together.We want to reach to a near-perfect state.that's our goal! The effort continues, thus maintaing Relationship is so challenging! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@milagre (1272)
• Portugal
10 Mar 09
Y're right, txs for posting
@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
8 Mar 09
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. every relationship has its ups and downs. its what you do that makes the relationship tolerable. i mean, will you be able to accept the all your partners flaws just to make the relationship last and do you love them so much you get so blind with all their inequalities. Things will workout if you really love each other. :)
@milagre (1272)
• Portugal
8 Mar 09
In some ways i agree with you, but sometimes love is not enough to go over some imperfections, one of them by exemple if the other one often plays the victime or if plays the accuser, and other things that love cant repair. Txs for yr posting very interesting.
• India
8 Mar 09
hai, there is no one perfect in this entire world ,if someone perfect means he/she is God and GOD is one so how it is possible that relation between unperfect(near to perfect)person will be perfect .so mistakes and problems alwayas comes but we must shorted out and try to create a better inderstanding between themselves.