is it possible to unconditonally love an adopted child?

Well, its quite a possiblity since there are instances wherein the parents thought that the child that they really had was their own but, actually someone else's. Those situations wherein the children were switched at birth. Then again, you could say that the parents on the event were all innocent about the truth so their affections were all authentice. The situation that you have given is being aware after all. I'd have to say yes to that too since, raising someone or being someone to say the least, gets use more familiar with that particular person and that familiarity would often bring affection and the relationship strengthens. Its quite a possibility.

It's hard to say when you've not experiensed both having adoptive children AND children of your own. The parents that have gotten the "wrong" baby from start - would consider them as their own babies - that's another part than adopting. I belive that you will love your own children more since you've brought them to this world and been together with them from day one, I belive there is another type of love (it can be as strong as the other) that you get from ypur adoptive children. One reason is that you often get them when they are a bit older - yes, some are still very young, but the bonding or damage has allready started with other people. I also belive that it can be very hard for adoptive children that gets siblings that are biological children to their parents.