Would you care about your partner's dark past?

Philippines
March 9, 2009 8:20am CST
And would you accept him/her for who he/she is after finding the whole truth?
10 responses
@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Well in my case right now already married I don't have any choice but to accept whatever his darkest past. And besides past is past there's no point in looking back with those mistakes. If you really love a person you will not bother anymore knowing those past experienced he had gone through.
• China
9 Mar 09
I think you said ringht.
@lighten (30)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 09
sometimes in this case, better not knowing or don't care about that. What happened in the past cannot be changed either. Just concentrate with what you have now, the relationship with he/she, and it even worth your time.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Actually I do sometimes get jealous with his past. But I finally learned to accept all those. The important is you learned from wrongs and having become wiser. There's nothing I can do about the his wrongs of yesterday, I let them go and move forward into tomorrow.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
i really would like to know his past whether it be bad or not. i believe that his past is still a part of him that i should know and accept. if you really love a person, no matter what his/her past is, you'll be ready for whatever it is and no matter what is takes. sometimes at this point in your relationship you will realize how much you value one another and how deep is your love for your partner to accept whatever his/her past be. besides, as they say, past is past. what matters most is your present and your future. there are things from the past that should really be left behind and start a new whole life again. but there are also things from the past that really needs to go on for your life to be better. anyways, happy mylotting.
@bbsr13 (4198)
• India
9 Mar 09
Hello! I never look in to the past.I will be happy with the present,and not even bother what would happen in the future.If the present relationship is congenial then it is okay.thanx.
@xiaouie15 (289)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
No. I wouldn't really mind his dark past. Once I love I really love. What he is right now is much important to me than his past. And it is his past anyway. I look forward more on our future. And once you love a person you wouldn't really mind whatever past he had anyway.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
for me what is past is past..what's important is the present and the future..and if i really the person then definitely i will accept him whole heartedly...
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Some things should be kept secret even when in a relationship in my opinion, but if I somehow found out about a dark past in my partner and it happened in the past and not in the current relationship then it's ok for me to forgive.
@agmamayo (804)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
There are some people who thinks different if someone they love has a thing of his/her past. many of us expect to look for a perfect person whom there is nothing serious about their past. But for me, I dont think the persons past experience is that important to talk about. The person may have the worst story of the past but its already done and you can't do anything about it, better think of the present and the near future. Whats important is that you both love and respect each other, and trust grows between you and your partner.Besides that, you have loved the person for what he or she is, not on what happened in the past. It at first be hard to accept whats the past is all about, but you need to open up your mind, put yourself to his/her shoes and feel what he/she felt when those situation. Understanding is also important, even if you knew all of those past events that happened to him/her and open up your heart.
@lonmar71 (89)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
i think in every relationship it is very important to know your partners past not to judge him or her but to understand what he or she went through before you meet him or her because let's face it it will surely affect your present relationship.you can accept him or her after knowing the persons past simply because you love the person. past is past. you can't undo it. what's important is that your partner is honest enough to tell you the truth and is open about it.