Is this a good reason, for me, to have to, give up my job and education?

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I once lived with my aunt. (My mother's sister). I was working full-time at an Teleservices company. I was an Customer Service Representative. And I was in school as well. Well one day, I asked my aunt if I could spend the weekend with a good friend of mines. We both worked together at the same job. And she told me yes. I told her who I was going to be spending the night with her, and I told her where I was going to be at. So, she knew all about my whereabouts. Well, while I was gone, I guess my aunt ended up calling my grandmother just to talk to her. And I guess my grandmother asked where I was at. And my aunt told her that I was in another city spending the weekend with a friend of mines from work. I don't know the exact conversation. But, I am assuming that this is what my aunt told her. So, my grandmother then tells her, Tell Tipp to come home! My grandmother called me by my nickname that I was raised with, not cream97. So, when I got back from spending the weekend with my friend, I had to go back home, which was in Sumter. I was so upset and stressed out! When I got back home, my other aunt was very upset. She was blaming my other aunt for the reason why I was not in school. But in reality it was my grandmother's fault. My grandmother was the one that told my aunt to tell me to come back home. Just because I spent the weekend with one of my friends, whom my aunt has met, was no reason for me to come back home! I had to give up my job and my education. So now, my dad is blaming my husband for the reason why that I am not in school. He says that he is the reason why I quit school the last time that I was there. This was in Sumter, my hometown. But, my husband had nothing to do with that. We did not even know each other like that when I was living with my aunt. Everybody wants me to go back to school, which I will. But they are blaming the wrong person here. They should be blaming my grandmother. So now, ever since I was taken out of school in 1999 and then I had to give up my job at that time... It has been very hard for me to keep a job and to stay in school so long. I was going to college and I was majoring in Office Systems Technology. I had good grades, and I was in my second semester. Now here it is 2009. And from 1999 till now, I have not held a job but so long, nor have I stayed in college that long... Since that time I have worked and went to college.. I ended up changing my major because the work got too hard for me to understand. I thought that by taking an easier major, it would be easy for me to finsh college. And I also thought that this was what I really wanted to go to college for. This major was Early Childhood Education. So now, I can't work, because of an Herniated Disc in my back. I am fighting hard for my SSI.. And believe me it is very tough! So, as far as me getting out there and getting a job outside of the home is a slim shot... So, I have just decided to stay home with my kids and be a homemaker. But, I will be working on finding some kind of work that I can do even if it is an online job. I don't want to just sit at home and not make or have any kind of income that I can fall back on. This is only if my SSI benefits does not come through. And I plan to take upon an online study of going back to college. All this will be done as my goals. My point is this, if my grandmother had not told my aunt to tell me to come back home, then maybe, I would have been much further than I am as of now. Due to my grandmother's insecurity, I had to give up my job and my education. Since then, I have not been able to hold a job or college for so long. I was doing real good. My aunt had no complaints about me whatsoever. I respected her and her home. My aunt has to understand that, that, was her house that I was staying in. I was an adult at that time. I was about 19 years old at this time. She makes the rules in her own home, not my grandmother. My grandmother has her own home, and she makes her own rules, the way that she likes it. I can't blame anyone for my failures, no one can. But, in this case, my grandmother and my aunt are to blame. How can my grandmother tell me to come back home just because I spent the weekend with a friend of mines??? I did nothing wrong. And how can my aunt, allow her to manipulate her like that, so that I had to come back home to Sumter. It is very obvious that my aunt was scared of my grandmother and that is why she did what she was told to do. So, there you have it, my failed and screwed up life.. This is how it all started to where I am at as of now in my life... No wonder I have so much of bad luck..