Are you good at making friends???

@djemba (767)
India
March 10, 2009 1:35pm CST
Are you the really friendly guy who interacts with everyone and makes friends instantly..OR are yo the guy who shies off and doesn't move for it..As for me i am not the very friendly kinds..It takes me a lot of time finding good friends ..So are you good at making friends??
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9 responses
• United States
11 Mar 09
I'm horrible at making friends- bu when I do, they're friends for life.
@djemba (767)
• India
11 Mar 09
Yeah i know what you mean ..I am also difficult socially but when i make friends , they're for life...
@iamsolucky (1241)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
i can easily say hi and hello, waving and smiling with new people. But its hard for me to make "friends" easily. I think i have a deep meaning for friendship. For me it doesnt mean that i say hi to you and talk to you, it automatically means "friends". I think its just acquiantance, sign of being good to other people. Friends are the one that i go and laugh with, cry with and share my stories, even secret ones. they are the one who are good to me, its hard to find real friends like that. My family, boyfriend, relatives, few people close to my heart are my friends. Happy mylotting!
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
10 Mar 09
Unfortunately, I don't think I am very good at making friends. It isn't that I am a mean person or anything, but I am very shy, and it makes it difficult for me to get comfortable around a new person. Once I am able to stop being so shy and get to know someone, then I usually become really close friends with them, but it just takes me awhile at first. I would really like to get better at making friends, though. I guess it is just something that takes time for some people!
@skyblue (1299)
• India
10 Mar 09
Hi..djemba When i was a college guy, at that time i was very shy and i feel nervous while i am talking with a new guy.And i did not have too many friends, only two friends who lived in my locality. Always i had a fear, while i talked with a girl, every time i thought what should i talk to her. But after few month , i also improved my personality and self confidence in college.And after that, i could easily talk with a guy for sharing information about our studies.Now i am very friendly.I have many friends in my country and other's country.Still now i always new friends... Thank you..
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
10 Mar 09
I do not make friends easily. I do not really like to make friends, I prefer to do things on my own. Cheers!!
@yashassid (208)
• India
11 Mar 09
you need to be social talk to a bunch of different people and see which ones have the same interest as you evenly you'll become friends the lunch table you sit at is also a good way to make friends i sat at a lunch table when i was a freshman i knew no one there now i friends with almost all of them
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
10 Mar 09
Hi, djemba! I am good at making friends, from what I can understand. I am very quiet and I stay to myself.. But, I am a decent person when it comes to establishing a friendship.. But, I am not too friendly, if you know what I mean.. I am a great person to make friends with.
• India
10 Mar 09
well....m not a shy person....i bond with people quite easily......and i also like to make friends....good friends that is.....earlier i used to be shy....and used to hide from strangers.....but graduall i lost all the shyness in me and now m called as the biggest flirt here...hehe
@peterjtd (76)
• India
10 Mar 09
to make friends is easy but to maintain the friendship is difficult. well to tell to the fact i do sometines shy off, it becomes diffcult to approach a friend and say hi to her. i guess it depends sometime on the upbringing of the child, if the child is brought up in an open minded enviroment, he finds it very much comfortable making friends but he is brought up with parents who are a bit narrow minded, he finds it really uncomfortable to find friends.