I got the transcript...
@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
United States
March 10, 2009 10:35pm CST
I wanted to share what was going on in court, and a conflict of interest, you can find the information at this link to a post on Blogger:
http://tgwbmystory.blogspot.com/2005/10/blog-post_112925835622428278.html
Now to make copies of the paperwork to present to the Judge, the police report, a letter from Rosie and this old case when he was a prosecutor.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
11 Mar 09
THis all sounds so wrong!
How did this woman get all his power.
and how do you get it back.
as you are the grandson.
and did you ask the policeman why he asked that question?
WHy would you wan to put your grnad ma there when she has all her faculties working!?
grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Mar 09
85 really isnt old my mom is 89 but we are doing anything that she doesnt want done altho I would love her to come live with me awhile.
And just how long has this all been going on?
Untill mom got pnuemonia she was very spry and could think yreal good now she has short term memory loss.
So this women must be driving her crazy! grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
12 Mar 09
That is what she is doing it is very grrrrrrr....!!!!!
@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Hi Lakota,
I don't have that much power, if any but what I do have the ability to do is present the evidence and as for my Grandmother and all of her faculties working, that will happen again when she is no longer under the influence of my stepmother. If we look up the definition of Elder Abuse one of the issues is disorientation... My stepmother is causing my Grandmother to be confused and that is a form of Elder Abuse. Yes, Grrrrrrrr is the right response, because people are buying what my step mother has been selling. My Grandmother at 85 certainly needs care and attention, but she doesn't need the hostile environment being told lies and controlled like a child. It certainly is not respectful.
@jazzsue58 (2666)
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11 Mar 09
This sounds dreadful - a similar thing happened in my family a couple of generations ago, again a stepmom. Sounds like greed and, hopefully, the laws of karma will ensure she gets her comeuppance one day - as did my mother-in-law's stepmom. But how on earth can she, who is not even related, overrule you in your GM's house? She sounds one evil witch. Great blog, btw.
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Thank You Jazzsue,
That is quite a blog now is it not? Pack full of information...
I agree the powers that be are over rated and have gone too far in preventing blood relatives access to each other, both my Grandmother and my Children we are all victims of this twisted and absurd system.
You are protected if you are violent and lie, but not if you are an honest person able to put together two pieces of information and come to a logical conclusion and explanation. Add to that the ability to read and fact check to be sure that you have the information processed correctly.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
13 Mar 09
There must be more to the story somewhere else as this is a bit hard to follow. How long has your stepmother been in your life? Is Rosemary your Grandmother and Rosie your step-mother? Did you receive anything from your father's estate? Or did that woman get it all? Does she have other children? Does she have any claim on your grandmother's estate? Why do you think your stepmother doesn't like you?
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@us2owls (1681)
• United States
11 Mar 09
TGWB - I don't know what state you are in but have you tried talking to the department or agency in your state that deals with elder abuse. They might help you. Good luck. Sounds to me like your step-mother is out to line her own pockets.
@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Thank You Us2Owls,
Now I have contacted plenty of agencies in my state including the Attorney General, for both this case and filing a Federal suit against the state for the violations of my civil rights, this is a violation of my Grandmother's civil rights... Yes, I've been in contact with the area for aging as well. Because this is a case pending in Orphan's court, it happens that those agencies are not helping me and my Grandmother.
I have contacted the Federal Attorney General due to the nature of both cases as violations to our Civil Rights. I'm still waiting to hear from the Federal Attorney General.
That is the next thing to do is to check those E-mails, but I would have expected a phone call and have yet to receive any tangible contact either by phone or E-mail as of this moment that I know of. If I do hear from the Federal Attorney General I will let you know...
@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
12 Mar 09
Sweetie, I really don't require documentation proving what is going on and how the system is a mess. I know that from experience. I also know there are a lot of mean and spiteful people in this world. But, there are also wonderful caring and compassionate people in this world. I'm truly sorry that you are having issues with people being dishonest and that you have known suffering and sorrow. The majority of the people that are living or ever have lived also know and have experienced such things. Some cling to them, using them to explain away the things they do and say. Some learn from them and instead become honest and compassionate and helpful. The thing is, we have a choice. We don't have to take what is thrown at us and throw things at others. We can instead look to others and offer our shoulder for them to vent on, let them know they aren't alone, offer them the compassion that we didn't get but know should be an important part of life.
Tomorrow I am in charge of how my day goes. I can be the good person I know I am or I can be hateful and hurtful. Someone may come in and shout at me. I don't have to shout back. I am in charge of what I think, feel and believe. I can't force these things on others. They too have to choose.
I do want to say that I hope that you are able to correct the wrong done to your family members. I hope that what is best for each of them comes to pass. I will even pray that this occurs.
You don't have to keep quiet about the injustice of the world and you shouldn't. But the past shouldn't rule your life, it should change your life in such a way as you are able to learn and grow from it. You don't have to be the person or people that have hurt you. You are allowed to be happy. You are allowed to choose.
Blessings,
Carolyn
@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
12 Mar 09
And this choice to choose to be happy is the choice that I have made, I have chosen to seek that the injustice be corrected and to be asking my question and providing my evidence at the earliest of convenience and I fully intend to expose the conflicts of interest and the abuse that I have suffered.
I have proof of liable and the police report if not redacted would prove slander and threats.
My correspondences with the judge could also be proof to be associated with the grilling that I received about following proper procedure by my step mother's lawyer.
You see the link I provided reveals this conversation of this grilling and so I followed up with a complaint and request to the judge about the abuse my step mother was punishing me. The judge wrote back to me and said that my contact with him was inappropriate???? Now how if I'm to contact the judge with legal issues in order to follow proper procedure... How then does it become inappropriate to contact the judge? Double standards of some sort?
I could post those documents on Communati as leverage in the event that they try to hold me in contempt of court, I'm sure the judge would love to see those documents going public... Communati has a function that allows you to put a post on a delayed timer... How creative would that be?
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
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11 Mar 09
Hi Gary,
Thank you for the link and I have read a little of it but need to finish readin it, as it is very late for me I am going to bed so I will read it tomorrow, sounds very interesting. Thanks.
Tamara
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Thanks Tamara,
Quite interesting and quite a mess...
The days, hours, minutes and seconds just keep ticking away...
Just one more hurdle to jump then I look up and someone is out in front of me setting up more hurdles... I love track but this is like a never ending course. We all know there is a finish line at the end of the course, and I know in my heart I have the ultimate victory.
