is she love me?
March 11, 2009 6:12am CST
hi friends i love a girl since 3 year she knows it and also she care for me very well and also she can not see any girl with me except her but she is not commited to me she is saying that she needsa rich and handsome guy i am a average looking guy now tell me what do? should i love her like before or should i leave her or should i search a guy as per her choice?
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11 Mar 09
well, i guess just let her go. and from the looks of it, she doesn't want to be with you, but she doesn't want others to have you... well, if you let her go, you never know. She might come around and really look at you. Because now you're always there. It's like air. When it's always around you, you take it for granted. But when it's gone, you know how precious it is. when she has bummed around enough, she might realize (IF she really loves you), that you're the guy for her. There is always a possibility. These things are never 100%.
11 Mar 09
Hi sonusd, I've been in your shoes and I know how it feels, it really takes a toll on your life to be in such a situation.. I love a girl working in my company and am sure she also likes me a lot if not love me. I did tried to talk to her frankly on quite number of occasions but she always turns the topic in some another one. Once she told me that she would like to marry a tall guy (her being 5'7", me being 5'7" as well) but she wants to marry a guy atleast 6+ feet tall. That was the thing I never liked about her as I don't think if you love someone you can see their height, width and thinks like that. In love all that matters is the person and not their physical qualities. That was the time that jolted me and I had to let her go from my life, she still calls me and tries to contact me, but after knowing her thoughts, I cannot let her come in my life anymore. In your case the outcome is that if she is being too much practical about the guy she wants to marry, let her go...!! She is not for you buddy, she wants money and not love. Keep searching for a good mate as the world is not a small place to live. Even such a person comes in your life, it will not do you good in long run, I am sure that you will find much better and deserving partner who would love just "YOU" and nothing else. Stop taking her calls, dont reply to her SMS and erase her completely from your life, I know that's might be tough for you to do first, but believe me, you will be satisfied person once everything cools down.
11 Mar 09
Well, i guess it's time to let her go.. i mean, it proves that she's just after the wealth of the person but not with who he really is.. she isn't worthy of your love, if that's the case.. but if you want to stay as her good friend then do it.. do it as long as your happy... but if you can't take the pain of seeing her with other guys, then i guess you should move on with your life and look for someone else.. someone who would love you no matter what..
11 Mar 09
hi there. if she told you that she needs a rich man and handsome guy then first let her go, let her search herself to what she wants. This may give her some time to think about the relationship. If she returns to you then probably she is really yours but if she doesn't she never is.