how can i know a man if he loves me,and what shoud i do
By yoyo2323
@yoyo2323 (465)
China
March 11, 2009 8:41am CST
i met a guyfor a few days,he is so cute .and i fall in love with him ! after a few days he went back to his country .i had told him my feelings! but we live in different country,and we keep in touch by emails ,he said he have not stop think about me and want to see me again ,and also said he would buy me a ticket to fly to his country . do you think he loves me ?and there's so many beautiful girls around him ! i think i have few chance.he lives so far from me .we can not see each other .i am afraid he will forget me soon.do you think he has the same feelings with me and what should i do !
2 responses
@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
We are in the same situation dear.
If your bf is really serious with you, you will be able to know and feel it. Especially if he proposes to you then thats it. My bf told me that he wants to have kids and grow old with me.
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
12 Mar 09
how lucky you are. i think i am not as lucky as you. i have not recieve his emails for 2days ,so i feel sad .and everyday i find my mind is totally in a mess.i am thinking about what can i do to get with him .cause i do not have money to go abroad,and i need to finish my study!i think all the things is my own destiny! gooluck!and thank you !
@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
I am sorry to hear that. 
In my situation, I didn't tell my feelings to him then he was the first one who said "I love you" to me, after that, I admitted that I also fallen in love with love him when we were together. 
I know that he is serious to me as he told his parents and friends about me. His father and other friends even added me on Facebook!
I think you are still young, what I can advice you is to finish your studies first and get your own life. 
If he really loves you, he will make a way to be with you again (without asking him). If you have your own life and career, you can be proud of yourself and he will be the one running after you.
In my situation, I didn't tell my feelings to him then he was the first one who said "I love you" to me, after that, I admitted that I also fallen in love with love him when we were together.
I know that he is serious to me as he told his parents and friends about me. His father and other friends even added me on Facebook!
I think you are still young, what I can advice you is to finish your studies first and get your own life.
If he really loves you, he will make a way to be with you again (without asking him). If you have your own life and career, you can be proud of yourself and he will be the one running after you.
@markroderick (887)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
I guess you have to be sure of what you feel and how the guy feels for you. if he really loves you or not. and if he will fulfill his promise to you that he will keep in touch to you regularly. long distance relationship is really hard to maintain. so i guess it depends on both of you how you work it out. GoodLuck!
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
12 Mar 09
i did not accept the ticket.it was too expensive.i am sure i want to be with him,but i have no idea about his feelings .i haven't recieved his emails for 2 days . i don't know why .but he said he wants to see me again.i hope he is busy so he have no time to send me email.this is just a stupid way i comfort myself!anyhow thank you so much!~
