What will you do if you felt like you were falling in love with someone?

falling in love - im in love
@ana3173 (420)
Philippines
March 11, 2009 12:38pm CST
"Im in Love but Im afraid to show my feeling towards her/him" this is the words of someone in love. I just want to know your experiences about this guys, did you experience falling in love with someone but afraid to tell him/her for fear of rejection. according to others they will hold back their feeling if that person is a friend, they hold back their feelings for fear of loosing a friend and losing their friendship. what your point of view about this and the reason why you fall in love with that someone?
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@delkar (1715)
• Romania
11 Mar 09
well, in my case, it`s a little different. If i`m inloved with a friend of mine, i really tell her what i`m feeling. It`s risky but it`s easier to say it to a friend, than to a stranger. But the bad thing it`s that some girls, on street, or in bus, are really pretty and they look at me so sweet, and some of them even come next to me, and so on...but it`s like i`m blocked. I think that it`s because i really don`t think that i`m sweet, and when a so sweet girl it`s looking at me, and so on, i really think that`s just a coincidence, so, i`m really kicking my own chances with a beautiful girl...
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@ana3173 (420)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
theres nothing to fall in love and tell her what you feel towards your friend as long as she still single at least you have a courage. well its your chance to meet many girls but as long as shes not committed to anybody
@ana3173 (420)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
there's nothing wrong to fall in love.
• United States
11 Mar 09
I am the type of perosn to back off the relationship. I will stop calling the person and visiting. I am all for being with someone. I just don't want to fall in love right now. I like being single and not in love. I have control over my future.
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@ana3173 (420)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
there's nothing wrong to set aside your feelings for someone if you're not serious or if you're not really sure about your feeling towards him/her, if you're a man with a lot of dreams just go on fulfill your dreams, anyway you cant hurry love and your still young.
@glords (2614)
• United States
27 Mar 09
I think honesty is the best policy. You don't have to pressure them into a situation, just tell them how you feel. Tell him "I don't want to do anything to damage our friendship, but I my feelings for you are growing into something more then just friends." Perhaps he is having the same feelings as you, or perhaps they are different. If you put your cards on the table then you can know how to proceed. If he likes you great. If not, at least you know where the relationship is headed, and you can invest your emotions and heart in something else.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
27 Mar 09
I would hold back my feelings and hold back how I feel until the time was right. It is hard to be in a relationship when you say you love someone before the time is right for both of you. Right now I am feeling strong feelings toward the man I am seeing and I am trying to hold back those feelings til the time is right, a few more months.
• India
12 Mar 09
The best thing you could do is , understand his/her character ,If you really think that your born to keep him/her happy , tats love,propose to him/her ,the moment you get this thought in your mind :)
@Krisneil (577)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
I will do my best to be accepted and acknowledge by my love.
@UK_Shree (3604)
11 Mar 09
I probably wouldn't make my feelings clear unless I thought they felt the same way about me. That you avoid getting hurt/feeling embarrased and also avoid ruining what might already be a really good friendship
• United States
11 Mar 09
i think love is in the heart and should be expressed when felt. if you are falling in love with someone and you wish to have him, the best thing will be to let the person know lest someone else might come into thepicture and nothing is as worse as wanting something yet you cant have it. tell him what you feel and leave the rest to him