have you ever said "i love you" but you really didn't mean it?
March 11, 2009 7:32pm CST
A friend of mine told me that she said i love you to a guy and yet she really didn't mean it and actually just lied about her real feelings for that person.bad girl huh?
12 Mar 09
Words like that are something that I save for later when I truly mean it, and when I mean to say it to someone whom I really love. I can't risk being misinterpreted by someone. So I don't say it unless I mean it. That's just it. These words are like precious gems. You just don't give it to someone who doesn't deserve and who isn't the right one for it.
12 Mar 09
I think i did a few times. I'm better at telling false "i love yous" than telling disappointing words. You know, just say it at least for the mean time and see what the future will bring. Who knows it may come true. It's like i really just can't say no. Some girls misunderstood my gesture which brings the pressure on me.
12 Mar 09
as for me, i don't say anything that i don't mean, my husband always tell me those 3 wonderful words and sometimes i wont respond and it irritates him, thinking that i don't love him, but i would usually tell him that, i will say it when i feel it, i learned it from MY BESTFRIEND'S WEDDING, julia roberts movie, from then on, i say everything that i feel, especially those loving words, i would even call my husband at work just to tell him that i love him. or even in the middle of the night, if i have the urge to let him know that i love him, i would wake him up and tell him, it doesn't matter if he answers back or not, what's important to me is i expressed and told him that he's loved. i don't think your friend's being a bad girl by saying it, maybe it made the guy feel good knowing that someone loved him even if it's just a lie, sometimes saying untruthful things can do good, just don't make it a habit.... SMILE! MAI
13 Mar 09
twice then i met my real love so it never happened again, i hope. the first one was just a joke. i was kidding around and the gullible guy fell for it, i mean smart people will know i was just kidding but there he was who thought i was serious and i did not know how to tell him i was just kidding, thankfully it was done through text messaging so i was able to break it off before it got any deeper. the second guy was a different story, i sort of care for the guy but not really love, then he went and committed himself to another girl, no hard feelings for me there, then he came back when i already met someone else, this time im the one who ditched him, feels good haha