Love is Gr8
12 Mar 09
Falling in love very fast is indeed a reason for breakups. But it is not the whole thing. Falling in love too fast makes the two can not understand each other very well. Then they may make the wrong decesions. However, I do know some people who fall in love at first sight and they get along very well until now. For me, I am not such a guy who can fall in love very well. I think the two need to understand first for some time. Then they decide if they should be lovers. After my first breakup, it makes me believe that I am really not a falling-in-love-at-first-sight guy. :)
12 Mar 09
Hi liferokzl!Yes the four letter word L O V E is the greatest word of all times! We are here in this world because of it. The foremost picture is, GOD created the world because of his LOVE for us. He made it a friendly world to live in, complete with all the necessities in life. It is also LOVE that binds every member of the family close together, same with your partner in life, a friend, a neighbor, your relatives or to the people you often interact with in your daily struggle in life. For me when there is LOVE there is RESPECT. For if you LOVE a person, there is a special bond and mutual understanding between you and that person for without this foundation that love would easily fall down, especially so with all those intriguing factors of the society we are living now. Let us face things squarely and open our eyes that the causes of break ups stems on the values, norms and conducts of the people of the society we are living, for let us retrospect in the past, there is so much respect for relationships with our forefathers. Entering into a relationship is a sacred thing to them, For, for them it is a part of their life that last forever. Today, it is a fact that before one settles into a forever relationship, he or she had a number of heartaches first, It is then within us, on how we handle our relationships that matters. We have to express and give our greatest LOVE to the one we feel who is willing to compensate what that greatest LOVE is meant for us. For if we fully understand what we want for LOVE, there and then we find that real greatest LOVE!
12 Mar 09
I think expecting too much can make love cause this breakups and everything. When we fall in love it was not voluntary rather we just realized that we are in love and that's it. Adding too much expectations after that are the ones that really destroys especially when they are not met. I think when you love you love unconditionally and if conditions does exist because it cannot be denied then you should try the best that in case it was not met there should always be compromise that has to be made between you and your partner.