Getting too serious

Philippines
March 12, 2009 11:43am CST
have you ever loved that you almost gave your whole life to that someone but he/she left you for a very reason that you can not believe because it will never be fair to both of you? I loved this girl named IRENE JETOMO, we met each other at school, and got along for almost 2years. we faced a lot of very big problems but we never gave up. and suddenly after i had a very serious problem with my family, she just left me and gave me her reason " i will go on with my life without you". It gave me a very awkward feeling that i even thought of committing suicide. we never had a formal break up and i am still suffering for almost 3years by now. i am still hoping that she would come back to me. she's my life, my everything. i don't know how and where i am getting my strength that i can still go on with my life ignoring the pain and letting other people see that i am okay behind the fact that i am dying inside
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5 responses
@Ted3_uk (114)
12 Mar 09
Lifes a git like that some times... Think of it as painted pictures in a frame though... You see it as the biggest deal of your life, but how do you think she saw things? Doesnt matter if you know or not, just imagine.. Imagine how other people would see it.. Then think again how you see things, because at the end of the day if your alone its the only thing that matters to you. YOU TO YOUR SELF So think how wuld you have fun, if you were you, and get your self out there, knowing your doing what you want, Think about what peoples thought and views might be, but care less. dont be selfish or arrogant, but look after number 1?
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
hi. we have the same name pal. i know what you are trying to say, but it is very hard to move on when you have already planned your goals with the person you loved most. we have talked about what we want to attain after we finish our studies. but it is so sudden that she left me for a reason she did not want me to understand, that is why it became very hard for me to go on with my life. besides, i can find another girl that will love me and accept me for what i am. by the way thanks for your comment. take care and GODBLESS!!!
@Ted3_uk (114)
13 Mar 09
At the end of the day a plan is a plan, something that has not happened yet, and doesnt mean it will happen, for any reasons, people change, their lifes change, the world changes. Every thing is always changing, nothing stays the same :O) Gud luck with every thing buddy!
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
yeah you're right. everything in this world changes. even i admit that i have changed a lot since the day we broke up. but now i am feeling a little good than the last few months and i am sure that it will not take too long for me to fully recover and go on with my life like nothing had happened. i now realize that people get into our lives and helps us strengthen our selves. they serve as training partners and when they know they have done their work they will leave us and go on with their lives too. i learned a lot from my experiences. thanks again
• Hong Kong
13 Mar 09
Hey, take it easy! it'll get better in time(leona lewis) if she really left you alone, dont be sorrow~~ just imagine that there is a lot of beauty queens are waiting for you your life wont suck without her cheer up i'll take your part
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
i know things will be better as time pass by. i became sorrowful because i know that i will never find somebody else like her. but i am looking forward to meet and get along with other girls and hope that i will find the right girl for me. thanks for cheering me up pal! i believe that love will really find a way. sometimes destiny changes and that people make their own destinies. and now i am trying to make the necessary steps to make my life more meaningful
• Hong Kong
14 Mar 09
i am glad that you can stand the test if memories good or bad~it will make your life more valuable you will meet your right girl in sometime good luck!:)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
yes. thanks for your responses. i hope i could find the right girl for me soon. because i am the kind of man who works better when i have someone by my side, inspiration for short.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
12 Mar 09
when you love someone so dearly, you find it difficult digest that you have parted ways. that person has walked away and not returned since. it is better for you to know move away from your past. be happy that once there was a time in life when you were in love with someone. how many people on this experience this...? not all... you must be happy that you have done all that you could do to save the relationship and even have waited for long to revive the things. look life is long has haas many things in store for us. it is difficult but you must now make efforts to move out all this. there many people around you. envolve yourself in work and divert your mind towards differnet and beauitful things in life. finally, whe you love this person then you must be happy that this person is happy in her life.
• Nigeria
12 Mar 09
I've been in a similar situation, and i concur with you: its inexplicable. I was with a girl for 3 years. We had the most fabulous time at school. Then just before her graduation, and i still had 2 years to go, she told me she couldn't cope with the distance. I thought it was a joke. To kill me further, she sent me a mail a few weeks later to say that she has a new guy. i cried like a baby. Well, i guess my good news is after so many years I finally found a suitable replacement, and now, I'm glad it happened, cos this girls is like the Ice! She came and promptly extinguished the heavy burden in my heart. I cant practically say how she did it, but from the first moment I met her, i knew she was the true one. So guys, dont get depressed, it may take a while, but you'll meet someone who'll make your past look like it never existed
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
well, i guess you are right. i am really looking forward to meet new prospects these days. i am having fun with my friends and relatives so i can move on bit by bit. it is hard but i can do it. actually i just met a girl. we are both christians and she is fun to be with. i like her and we are seeing each other for days. by the way thanks for your advice! now i believe that past is past but i still not close the door if she may come back to me someday. thanks again! take care!
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 09
I have been in your situition before.I felt want to die when i think about it sometimes.My lover leave me because she think another person is better than me even i thin i have done everything the best for him.I am really sad about it until now....
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
so what do you plan to do about it? now i finally realized that people come and go. they pass us by and leave us memories. memories either good or bad, but it only molds us to be stronger to face other problems that will come. i appreciate your response and thanks for dropping by my topic. i hope you learned something about my topic as well as i have learned. thanks again
@delkar (1715)
• Romania
12 Mar 09
well, i was in such a situation, but not like that. I loved once a girl, but i didn`t know that then . Now i`m seeing that i loved her so much. But since then, i didn`t loved anyone. IT`s hard for me to love someone again,because i can`t feel something so nice anymore. I`m sad when i see what`s happening with me, but sometimes it`s better, when you don`t care if you`ll be together or not. Sometimes i`m really happy because i can`t suffer after a girl, nomatter what she will make. But sometimes i really want to feel something, and it`s like i forgot how it`s to love
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
oh. somehow we are in the same situation. i really felt like i lost everything when the girl i loved left me. it really affected my whole life. i can't even eat. i seldom go out of the house and just stare at the window and think about her all the time. i know she knew how much i loved her because i gave everything she needed. i really regret that it suddenly happened. she didn't even cared if i will be alright after what she had done. somehow i am looking forward to find someone who will love me the with all her heart. thanks for your response. take care pal! Godbless!