How should I tell my friend to lay off?
By dismalgrin
@dismalgrin (2604)
United States
March 12, 2009 2:39pm CST
I am starting to have a problem with my friend! She has started calling me ALL the time. You would think we were lovers or something with the way she wants to keep tabs on me and keeps asking where I've been and what I'm doing. I know that I don't have that much of a life and really all there is to do for me is be on the computer, but I need a little space to myself and with her, if I'm not out running errands I need to be on the phone chatting with her! She even keeps me up late at nights while her child is to cranky to sleep and wakes me up bright and early as soon as he needs his bottle. I'm going crazy here, I wish she would somehow get a life of her own so that it's not all revolving around me. But, if I tell her to bug off a little then she will get offended and never want to talk to me again. I don't need that, because she is my only friend. I just need our lives not to be so much like a lond distance love affair!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
13 Mar 09
Did you talk to her about it or are you assuming that you are going to be offended by her.
Talking to her would be the best Idea. I sitting here can't give you a better idea to you. May be she is insecure about you that's why she wants to talk to you every time. I can tell you this because when I was in a one sided affair then I used to call my girlfriend(?) all the time, Just to know if she is missing me or not!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
14 Mar 09
You know the thinking never changes with time. I have this experience in mylife that no matter what could happen with me, my inner thoughts will never changes with time. I hardly keep my words and I hate this habit of mine but I can't change it.
So, somethings in life never changes and something changes.
If you are a good friend then you will have to accept her as it is. She must be knowing why you left her earlier. May be reminding her the last incident would lead her to think different!
