friendship and time

China
March 12, 2009 11:48pm CST
I want to say something about friendship of mine at the beginning. when I was in high school. I had a very close friend. our home was very near. so we went to school together everyday. and this was foundation of our friendship. Day after day, our friendship was grow up well.But when I went to university, she wasn't pass the entranct exam. and then our connections are very less. I still believe we are really friend.But I am not very clarity of our friendship. Does friendship along with time pass then it pass? In the world, we have friendship forever, or not?
1 response
@csrobins (1120)
• United States
13 Mar 09
Time changes people as they go through different experiences and make new freinds and esteblish new identities. My best friend and I have been best friends since we were in second grade. When we both left for different colleges we totally changed as people and honestly, we didnt like the way the other had become. We eventually told each other this and that we were just different now, ut it's ok, we ar still friends but things will not be th esame as with other freinds too. It sucks, but you will make new ones. I wouldn't totally leave the freindship behind though, you and her have something other freindships will never have and that is memries, a longevity of knowing each other and a lot more experiences than with others. but like time, friendships change too.
• China
13 Mar 09
yeap. I agree with you .and I like this sentence: that is memory.sure. It's nothing can substitute. Thank you very much.
• China
13 Mar 09
yeah,distance is not a problem between two good friends,i graduated from my collage last year,and now,all of my friends are living in the different city now,even we've been aparted,we'll sharing our experience of the work or something happened around us in email.that's good.when i got something good or bad,i'll write if down and sent to my frien,also,we are encourge each other. when you got some new friends,you also can contact with your old friend by ways,to be frank with everyone appeared in you life,you'll never feel alone....