Girl Talk: some guys have a habit in making promises..

Philippines
March 13, 2009 12:19pm CST
Some of the guys(i didn't say all..) have a habit in making those sweet promises and will make us girls believe that they mean it.. Is that a nature in all guys? Making promises then in the end, it's like it didn't happened.. all promises are gone.. and that makes us girls get mad and sometimes it get us irritated and tired of hearing those lies..
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5 responses
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
13 Mar 09
Yes some of them are all talk and no walk lol. I think some of them have the intention of fulfilling a promise when they made it and then after some time the feeling just fades away and they wouldn't bother keeping promises. I think people shouldn't make promises that they can't keep. Breaking a promise is far more worse than not having made any promises at all.
@kissieme (777)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
yep, totally true, the man should just keep mum and not spout promises that he couldn't keep lol... I just hate false hopes and dreams and broken spirit because of those lol... =P
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
hehehe.. yeah you're right.. it is better not to keep a promise at all than to make a heaven sent promises and breaks it in the end.. have a great day.. thanks for the response in my discussion..
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
13 Mar 09
I also wished that they could at least be truthfull enough to admit when they are wrong. I would respect truth over lies even if it hurt. Not all guys do that.
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• Philippines
13 Mar 09
yeah.. you're right.. they will keep on denying the fact that it's obviously wrong and still pretends to be on the right side.. girls needs an honest truthful man.. thanks for the response in my discussion.. have a great day..
@kissieme (777)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
hi... I don't know either.. I've been in that situation a lot of times... You get hopes up soooo much that your whole heart is sooo in love with the guy whom you thought has the guts to keep his words and feel that you're the luckiest woman in the world and you're proud of him. Then wham! You're just left there with a brokenheart plus those shattered dreams and a phobia for sweet talkers... This is where the saying, "to see is to believe..." comes, right? and yet the cycle goes on... you get to trust a guy again and ends up another set of broken promises... and still most girls persevere to find that one guy who would really really keep his promises... I still do even with patched up heart that had been broken so many times by just the 2 guys I've ever had in my life lol including my current bf =P... Am still hoping that things will be in the right places like a jigsaw puzzle in the end... I'm sorry, orange... I think I had vent out frustrations on your post... well, parts of it are still related hahaha... thanks though... this might be a good eye-opener for soem peeps... ^_^
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• Philippines
13 Mar 09
hehehehe... maybe just a little bit frustrated in making this topic and that's why the results was frustrating.. hehehe.. just kidding.. glad that this topic maybe a little bit eye-opener for some people out there.. thanks for the response in my discussion.. have a great day.. :)
@charlesb (17)
• Spain
13 Mar 09
hey! Well, that's just because you haven't found a right one yet. Because the same thing happens with guys. I have been in that situation several times too, it's just something that happens when the other person doesn't like you as much as you do. But don't lose hope! As i said, you just haven't found the right one yet, but you'll see that everybody is different, and somewhere is near you is a guy that will make you very happy. :)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
yeah.. maybe i haven't found the right guy yet.. to fulfill all my worries and questions.. thanks for the response in my discussions.. have a great day..
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
as what we all know guys are mostly so good in doing this kind of things but i also dont mean all because not all guys are sweet talkers. and we always got sooed but those promises and sweet lies. girls are so warm hearted and can easily be prompted to this kind of people. though we still always end up hoping its the truth and then at the long rungot hurt again and again. jhelai