Does arguement make a relationship worser or better?

@mermaidivy (15395)
United States
March 13, 2009 2:09pm CST
I have heard of some people says arguement won't kill a relationship, we have a saying is "fight on this side of the bed, when it comes to the other side of the bed, it would be the end of the fight meaning qurrel doesn't last long, it ends very quickly. And they said fights make relationships better, is it true? Have you ever fought with your spouse and then relationship with him/her gets better/worser?
5 responses
• United States
15 Mar 09
I think it depends on what the argument it about. Some subjects are just to important. If is is something small then it might make it stronger but if it is something you feel strongly about then it might break a relationship.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
16 Mar 09
THanks for sharring! :-)
@dhaumya (106)
• India
14 Mar 09
There is a saying, 'You can never win an arguement'. But marriages without arguements will be very boring and unimaginable, isn't it? You must know when to stop arguing, I mean both husband and wife should know this. If both of you are able to recognize the end point, then I would say that arguements can lead to better understanding and relations. Otherwise you know..........
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
14 Mar 09
That's a very good point. THanks for sharing! :-)
• United States
13 Mar 09
I'm not married. But I've been in a few relationships and I've seen others around me and I believe arguments make the relationship stronger where fighting makes it weaker and kills it. I've seen my mother go through some horrible relationships and also my friends. I think that arguing and debating and coming to a conclusion or agreeing to disagree just shows that you can have conversation and talk about your problems and come to a compromise. Fighting however is a very different story.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
13 Mar 09
So arguing makes relationship stronger somehow. Thanks for sharing! ^_^
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@forslahiri (1042)
• India
14 Mar 09
Hi, In a sedentary Love-Life,often 'arguments'with spouse act like a stimulus. All end in lovemaking,giving the scope to tell"I love You!" =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
14 Mar 09
THanks for sharing!
@oxtihama (91)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
relationships get better if there's a fought/argument w/n the partners.. if one has done not good thing that make quarrel between the two, then as long as it will be settled down the two will learned something from their mistakes and possibly avoid not to do same thing again..