Do you have days where words just blurt right out?

United States
March 13, 2009 10:36pm CST
I have days where sometimes it doesn't feel as though I'm in control of what I say. Stuff just blurts right out or I say it the wrong way. I rarely say anything horrible, but I do say things that when I look back I think, hmmmmm someone might take that the wrong way.
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@thraCe (10)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
someone of us might be off for a moment.. When we talk, talk, and talk. Not knowing we already said awfully negative comments, and realizing it late.. well, An apology always does the job.lol Or, thinking first, then talking would be a better choice..
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
if i were you, try to find more friends who could understand and accept you as who you are. all people have different chararteristics. we also have to control our words to make people not to judge some mistkes. many days that i had just blurt words right out. so, control our self, acceptance and understanding is needed.
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
you must be very careful specially when speaking in a group. they may miss interpret the word that will come out. this may occur a miss conception of meaning what they hear in you. you cannot control gossip that will spread in your sorroundings. careless talking can make an trouble.
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
I think that is an art to you. sometimes we fell that we are absent in the world may be this is because we are stressed out. Maybe the right thing to do is to exercise our self in the way that we are enjoying and relaxing. Try also to watch your word when you talk to other person think about that the person you are talking is understandable in a manner that you cannot offend that person. Be respectful enough and be a good professional in your self.
@koelle16 (12)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
everybody have had their days when they just simply blurted out everything because they are so full of it...especially when you are in the situation where everybody is just so unease and hot tempered that it will also get into your head though you try to keep your cool and just blurt thing you should'nt have said...everybody will surely be shocked...but then they will definitely understand after some time...
@ANTIQUELADY (36471)
• United States
15 Mar 09
every day i live. lol. i am very plain spoken & sometimes people take what i'm saying the wrong way. i would never hurt anybody's feelings intentionally but know i have & i'm sorry about that.
@khia07 (12)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Well i think you need to change yourself. Have some control of your mouth and know what's proper from not. Think ahead before blurting things out. I think what causes such manner is our emotion, if we let our emotion overpower our reasoning. Try putting yourself in other people's shoes. If you know you've said bad words to other people, apologize and make sure not to repeat the same mistake.
@jhanz05 (12)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
I think everyone of us have experienced that, when we are mud or not in the mood, we tend to speak out all the words we want to not realizing that we are hurting someone. In my case I have that time of sayng words that i can't control not knowing that there are people who will be hurt, But if you do control why no? becase you might loose somenone you don't want to specially when that person is so sensitive.
@underdogtoo (9591)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
I am not the blurting out kind of guy and I weigh my words carefully before they leave my mouth. If I have nothing to say then I just keep my mouth shut and when I am asked something I think before I blurt. Cheers!!
• United States
14 Mar 09
Sometimes my mouth is working a little faster than my brain yes but I try hard to think about what I say before I say it. Also, my friends and co-workers are like me and have very dirty minds so it usually isn't taken in an insulting way - instead a dirty way. Working at a hardware store doesn't help with all the funny names some things have.
@Jae2619 (1484)
• United States
14 Mar 09
I think everyone has a day or two where when they speak everything comes out wrong, or people take it as it wasn't to be meant. It's human nature. I myself, have those days, and it usually happens with my mother in law.