a good listener sometimes cause some problem

@yoyo2323 (465)
China
March 14, 2009 12:30am CST
each thing in the world has 2 sides.becoming a good listener may bring you many friends and a good reputation.but sometimes it may bring you some troubles! do you have any troubles it brings to you ?
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4 responses
dhaumya
@dhaumya (106)
• India
14 Mar 09
Hardly any troubles dear, if you are good secret keeper!
yoyo2323
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
14 Mar 09
of course i am a good listener! i can keep a secret.but there's something you can not control!'just like you area friend of some people.and they don't like each other,they all said bad behind each other.and they ask you to be their side !that's akind a trouble!of course i wonn't tell them what they said about each other! thank you !so much for your reply!
srganesh
@srganesh (6340)
• India
14 Mar 09
No!Unless you go on in person to find some solutions for their problem,then you are not in trouble.Even you would lose your relation.So,it is better to remain a listener alone for the others to shed their problems or worries and not to bother it more is enough.Cheers!
pweety_princess
@pweety_princess (2012)
• Australia
14 Mar 09
Yes you can hear many things and then you got in trouble for it because you kept a secret from someone you know or something like that. It's gone wrong for me many times. Luckily the arguments die down after a while and then everyone is okay. People like friends better that listen.
K.Rajib G.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
14 Mar 09
Definitely. Once you are established as a good listener all would come to you with their tale telling sagas and you would die of listening to them for there is a limit to all. Besides when you are a too good listener you could lose your voice, I mean your protesting voice.