Has this happened to you? If it did what could it mean?
March 14, 2009 1:15am CST
I wrote some time ago here in mylot that my best friend is getting to close to a girl who has a boy friend. My friend maintains that he does not have a more than friendship with the girl and he thinks it will never happen even if it is very obvious that he loves the girl. Here is what I want to know from you my friends... My best friends get's a call from the girl in the middle of the night asking him for advice on some problems. Now I would understand if the problem being discussed is about the girl's boyfriend but it's not. It's a problem concerning other things I think it is work related. Now if you were the girl would'nt it be your first impulse to call your boyfriend if you had any problem? Then why did she call my friend does this mean anything?
14 Mar 09
Yes i will tell my boyfriend if i meet some questains and just tell him!Truthly i can sovle most questains in my life and sometimes i just want tell someone.Mybe i fell shame to find help from others :)In spite of why the girl call your friend first but her boyfriend i think it is best do not consider it meaning something.Just do the things you believe it is right.
14 Mar 09
yeh if i was the girl i would first tell my problem to my boyfriend ... but since im not in the situation and we dont really know why she has to depend on ur friend we cant assume that the girl like your friend maybe hs boyfriend is jz really bz to sumthin else and she doesnt wana bother him also maybe her boyfriend gt problems to some other things and she jz doesnt wana add to it .... yehh it is ashamed to find help from others especially if you are a girl and hav a bf but if you have no1 to turn to and thats the only choice you can get... then why not... maybe jst dont gve a meaning on it, jz wait and see what would happen next, if ever she did it again and again it really means something ,coz why would a girl come to a guy to tell her problem if she does have a bf its okay if its jz one time but if its how many times it happend then thers somethin.....=)
14 Mar 09
It seems that you smell something fishy on them. It's okay for her not to depend on her boyfriend. Maybe her boyfriend has also a problem that she don't want to bother anymore. Or maybe her boyfriend is not so open minded like others or he don't care about anything in his girlfriend that's why she is looking for another person who is willing to listen to her. Maybe she finds comfortable when she's with your friend.