What will you do if you fall out of love?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
March 14, 2009 4:24am CST
I think I'll talk to her about it and really be honest with what I feel. I know I'll hurt her, but rather be true to her. But I won't let her leave me but help me at the same time to regain my love to her. After how many months of working it out, and it did not work out, I rather not be unfair for her to look for someone else that deserving for her love. Have a nice day to all of you!
4 responses
@annierose (21977)
• United States
15 Mar 09
hi n30wing, Just like you, I think that the best way to do when someone falls out of love, is to talk to his or her partner about that. But as I find in some relationships, I noticed that when one person falls out of love, he or she not tell it to his or her partner, but just go away without a word. I don't know if that is good or not but if that happened to me, I will feel hurt and disrespected. Having a talk with your partner when you fall out of love of him or her is a sign or respect for me. For sure, everyone has a feelings.What one can feel, can feel by the others as well.It's because we are all humans created with a heart.I just think that what if he is the one who falls out of love for me and not talk to me about it, then it will seems like he not give importance to me. I will be hurt and maybe disappointed when he did that. That is why, if ever I will fall out of love, I will do actions that I want to be done to me also in that case. There is a saying that "Do not do unto others, what you don't want others do unto you." I always think of that in every aspect of my life especially in my relationships. Having a talk with your partner if you fall out of love with him or her just shows that you are a fair person. In fact, it shows that one person who did that way has a good personality and a good heart.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
You know what those people who leaves their partner without letting them know the reason is immature. Imagine after years being together, and loving the person, and believing the person they will just turn their back. That is kind unfair.If you really love someone, you don't have the right to hurt him/her, imagine that you believe that person,trusting him/her and the wasted years, they don't have the nerves and I don't think so they love their partner seriously. Anyway have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
you're right. if you fall out of love then i'll tell to my partner also.be open always and i have to be honest because the more i prolong the agony of telling what i fell, the more i'll hurt my partner..
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
I think no matter what you should be honest to each other no what the circumstances is. Life is so simple to complicate matters if you could fix it out by resolving it together. Then just simply let it go! Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@nanayangel (7877)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Hi there! I will definitely do the same. I believe that honest and open communication is a key to successful relationship no matter what kind of relationship it would be. If you won't tell your partner the truth, you will be depriving both of you the opportunity to be genuinely happy.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
Yes nanayangel, if you love someone you will be honest telling her the truth. Imagine that your already in a relationship that is kind a long if you can help each other working out the problems, both of us will just be depriving our happiness. Anyway Have a nice day to you! God bless!
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
the last time i fall out of love, i said to my bf that i need time and space to confirm what i really feel about our relationship.. if im really sure that im not in love with him anymore. i have to say the truth to him.. but saying goodbye is really hard so it took a lot of trial before i finally said it. i feel sad about leaving him.. but i have to coz it will be unfair to him i keep our relationship any longer despite the fact that i dont love him anymore..
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
I think it's part of relationship when you feel this way to your partner. It's just up to you if you can fix it and solve the problems with your partner. If it takes you the same feeling well you were honest to him/her. You still given your partner a chance then not giving it one more chance. Anyway have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!