Lover or Prisoner?

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Some girl leaved her boyfriend for the other rich guy; some lovers parted for lacking of money;some couples broke up after they got rich... Love and money are the permanent hot topics for ages. And seems the bond between they two plays an important part always. No denying we can't leave money, and money will also help build a stronger base for the result of love; for the actual living stuff. However, I won't stand with those who abandoned love just for money. Maybe, I will agree if that's for saving life. Emptiness will finally haunt them, though I hope happiness blessing everyone. Money-worship benefits people when they fight for dreams, causes, or for being better-off; but robs people of their class and personality when they do just for money itself. Of course, I may say yes to those who have special habbit like accumulating money like machine, or else, time becomes so hard.It's similar in case of love. How can people choose to dump lover just for money? Can't imagine that.If we have to evaluate love with money, I will describe it like this: when there're only 30 in our pockets, we can still feel happy together with each other. Of course, we will improve the situation. I'm not sure about others' love, but that's mine. Here's a case of some girl living in our building before. She lived with her boyfriend off campus. Just 3 days before the 5.12 earthquake, the boy came to our room to borrow money... for the girl needs an abortion. We helped them. During the earthquake, my boyfriend, I and they two lived on the playground on our campus for some days. The girl told me it was already the second time to do an abortion. the period between two was less than a year... In early August, her boyfriend went home for vocation; and I went to work for those days. One day, the girl called me to her room. She was pregnant again, and the boy had broken up with her. When she told him that he just sent her some money and didn't come back even just to see her, or accompany her to the hospital. The moment she told me, I'm not just shocked. "why, why don't you be careful... and why you didn't care about yourself, if he didn't care you either. why you'r so exposed to being hurt...". It was two months later for the 3rd time. I companied her to the hospital and took care of her for several days. The boy... I don't wanna mention how heartless, or cold, or selfish... Loser, ignored. But I do hate him... then, after some time, I thought about this, I found the man wasn't the only person to blame. I should know the girl must have her problems. why didn't cherish herself to such a degree for that kind of guy. Why she slept with him when they broke up? why did she never think about the operation meant killing a life? WhY are you willing to be stepped down by a man No, I don't regard those kinda men as a real man, not even a human. We long for love from our lovers, but we'r not low or cheap. Both women and men should be blessed with love not being prisoned by others, or more sadly by themselves!!!