why i am jealous??

@ryaj21 (208)
Philippines
March 14, 2009 10:03pm CST
when my gf is talking to someone else or lookig to someone else i get mad..am i jealous??or just insecure??i hate the feeling when my gf is looking at some one when she have me already...is she not contented to me??what do you think guys i need your help...
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6 responses
• India
15 Mar 09
I think u seriously have to get over that feeling. I mean u r feeling jealous, just coz she looks at some1 gud looking?? every1 does....i mean u see a very beautiful lady and u tend to look at her coz she is beautiful, not coz u wanna make her ur Girlfriend right? Its Just the same way. And i absolutely agree, if she is talking wid some1, or wants to knw some1 and u r feeling this way, its justified, and u have to talk about it and settle it down. But just looking at others isnt anything to bother about. All u need to do is trust that person. And still if it doesnt help, its better u dnt chk if she is chking any1 esle...just dont ignore, keep urself busy.
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@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
thanks...i think your right you make me realize something..thanks
@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Mar 09
It may be you love her too much. also you feel insecure when she talks about others. Be secure and trust is main thing there.
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@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
maybe i love her that much..thanks..
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
25 Mar 09
It happened to me also in the past. I think it is normal and a little bit of immaturity and a little bit of insecurity. I also gets very jealous even when my friends especially girls talk to much to other boys and avoids me. I had also in the past felt very jealous when the person I love very much talk to someone else for a longer period of time.
@hopejordan (3561)
• Australia
15 Mar 09
hi there i used to be jealous of i had a boyfriend along time back and i was jealous of his mates i don't have anyone now take care
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
ohh thats bad to hear im sorry....ill help you find one ehehe...
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
You really love her.But for me what your acting is very immature.Looking to other people is not bad,maybe she just adore them because they're good.You know,you cant be like that all the time.You cant just be mad always whenever she talks or look to men.She also has to socialize with them.Maybe you both should talk and discuss about it.
• United States
15 Mar 09
It really depends on a few things. How long have you guys been together? If it has been only a short while, she could still be getting used to the relationship. How serious is the relationship? If it bothers you, you may want to talk to her about it.
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@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
we are almost seven months now....i just cant help it...when she looks to other guys...i just cant help it to tell her...ehehe i dont know whats happening to me..
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