Of all the sports for her to choose...ICE SKATING?

United States
March 14, 2009 11:13pm CST
This past Wednesday, my wife and I took our daughter ice skating for the first time. We thought it would be a great little family adventure. Well, it didn't go as well as I had hoped. She was very fearful and clung to either me, her mother, or the wall. She got so frustrated that she sat down on the ice and cried. I picked her up and took her off the ice and into the sitting area. We talked to her for a little while to calm her down. Well, while we were talking to her, one of the older girls who had been skating for eight years came over and asked if she could talk to Katy. She explained to Katy that it takes a lot of practice and that she still would fall sometimes. She talked to Katy for quite some time and by the end of the conversation, Katy felt so much better. To be honest, she felt so much better that she begged us to let her take lessons to become a great ice skater. Of course we agreed. Today was her first class day and I cannot even begin to describe how wonderful she did. She went out onto the ice with amazing confidence and on the one time that she fell, she laughed, picked herself back up, and kept on going. Most of the time, she kept insisting that she skate on her own. She wanted to try everything. Another figure skater saw Katy trying very hard and took an interest in her. They spent the next 4 hours skating together. It was incredible. The skater (Simarrah) said that she had great potential, the couch said she had great stage presence, and the rink wants to sponsor her in the future. Of all the sports to choose, I never would have guessed that she would be so keen on ice skating. All I have to say is...WOW!
3 responses
• New Zealand
15 Mar 09
Well, good on your daughter. I was exactly like that before and when I first started figure. Just from that state of mind, your daughter has great potential for figure. It is all about your state of mind, you have to enjoy it, know that you are going to fall, etc, and the sooner you know that (as your daughter does) the further you will get. To your daughter, I say good luck.
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• United States
15 Mar 09
I agree. When a child, or anyone for that matter, sets their mind to a certain task, there is no stopping them. I think you are right that it's convincing the parent that is the trick. Again, children can be very fickle and I think that in the back of the parent's mind is a little doubt to prepare them for the moment the child says, "I don't wanna do this anymore, daddy/mommy." However, she does seem motivated and determined. With all the encouragement behind her from professionals, she already has a great support system. Livy J
@xhaylea (361)
30 Mar 09
Aww, of course everyone is scared of iceskating at the beginning, but its great once you get used to and can do it. I bet you must be so proud :) x
• United States
15 Mar 09
Yes, it is amazing how our children can surprise us. One moment they hate what they are doing, the next moment they love what they are doing and never ever wanna stop. IF even the pros are seeing potential in her than she needs to get up on it and keep on going. Encourage her as much as you can but remember to listen to her on those moments where she may in fact want to stop all of it. Livy J