how make you trust your friend?

Singapore
March 15, 2009 3:40pm CST
how make you trust a friend? how your friend become your best friend?normally how long it take to trust him/her?
6 responses
@Spook619 (335)
15 Mar 09
Some people I've known all my life and I don't trust them, others I've known only a few months but I trust completely.
• Singapore
15 Mar 09
i feel is hard to trust friend.. sometime they will start to borrow money from you.and because you treat him/her as friend you lend her/him end up he/she forever not to contact you anymore. and now i only have one best friend . i think one friend should be enough.
• Singapore
15 Mar 09
the more friends i got the more trouble i got sometime. cause if friend need help i will normally help them .if they are trusted is fine. but some time they let me very disappointed
@Spook619 (335)
15 Mar 09
I've never had any problems like what you mentioned above with any "best" friends. I'm allways very careful with whom I trust and so far I've not gone wrong. That's not just because I allways know more about someone than they do about me.
@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
16 Mar 09
i have many friends ,old and new. i trust them and i would like to help them.i don't know who is my best friend,but i know the way to continue the friendship with each one of them.i have different topics with different friends.i know them very well just like they to me.maybe someone make me as best friend,but i am not sure whether i have or not.
• Singapore
16 Mar 09
oh great ..glad to heard that
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
15 Mar 09
I trust my best friend. I can tell him without fear of anything I have told him being spread as gossip. It took maybe a year for me to trust him completely. Right now my b/f is becoming my best friend. It has taken longer for me to trust my b/f because I was disappointed by my failed marriage.
@tman555 (161)
• Canada
15 Mar 09
How would you know when to trust them? That's a really big question. The answer from my point of view is that you trust them when you do. There is not really a set time on how long you have to spend with that person. When you trust them, they become your friend. That's not saying much, though. I have a few friends, great friends actually, but I can't trust them. I'm not saying they're not my friends, but it's just that they aren't the most trust worthy person in the world. So, really, you can't put a set clock on how long it will take for a person and you to trust each other and become best friends.
@neaj_miz (21)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
I make trust friend when i know he/she is really honest with me.And that`s the only way that your friendship will last.Especially when your in problems.And it also depend on your situation on your relation.And the bonding you have is worth memorable.
• United States
15 Mar 09
There is no specific amount of time. Your the only one that can tell when you can trust the person.