Would you marry someone who didnt get along with your parents at all?

So you can honestly say that you wouldnt min dif your fiance/husband snapped and disrspected your parents all the time because he didnt like them? and youd fuclly support him, even though hes hurting your parents? Personally, if I loved someone and he didnt necessarily like my parents it would really hurt me, but if he actually outright disrespects them everytime he sees them, then i woulnt want to be with a guy like that anyways

There is a line that you must establish, I don't speak bad to her family and she doesn't about mine. There is no room for disrespect if it disrupts a marriage. But I think the show you were talking about it kids getting married, heck, they are still pretending to be other people and there is a struggle between families because of the situation.

This is very true, too. Once a cuople is married, they become each other's responsibility; they worry about each other -not about what their parents think. The bible passages are Gensis 2:24, and also Matthew 10:7

I also would like to add that the whole "no one will ever be good enough" scenario that every parent feels is also a form of controling behavior.

well no offence lol the ages had nothing to do with the post, im just saying that was what the show was about, they technically werent udnerage so the whole consent thing is irrelevant. The whole point was just to see if you would stay with someone one if they didnt like your parents. I wouldnt be able to, it would hurt me to see my parents upset, any guys who cares about me should know that and go along with it. Id like to hope that people woluld learn to put their differences aside because of love, and keep anyhting they may think to themselves, just out of respect.

But my whole point is no, I would not break up with a partner just because my parents did not approve of them. A lot of times, parents want to use the "approval" thing to control their son or daughter's actions, and this is unfair. If my parnter were cheating on me and treating me like dirt, and my parents disapproved, I suppose I would give it some thought, but then again, love is blind. A lot of times, if someone is in an unhealthy relationship and is being harmed, and the parents chime in, then it is not a case of the parents trying to be controling; it is a case of the son or daughter being harmed to come to the realization themselves, and make the decision to get out. Either way, it is up to the son or daughter to decide who their parnter is. Luckily, for me, I am engaged to a lovely man who holds a PhD. in Quantum Physics, who is outoging, and fun, and loves me for me, and visa versa, and shares the same Christian beliefs I have. However, my parents are control freaks. No one was good enough for me. Every time they would meet one of my "potentials," he was not good enough, and they would constantly nag and pick at different things about him that they did not like. After a while, the nagging and nit-picking gets really stale, and it eventually corrupts an otherwise healthy relationship. It is as if parents realize that if they critisize long enough, it will wear on the couple and they will break up. Eventually, the son or daughter feels aggravated, always having to hear "crap" about their significant other, so they would rather break it off than to have to hear one more word. With my fiance, I had to put my foot down that I really like this guy, and they would have to get over themselves. I did not say anything about his skills or talents, or the fact that he had a PhD. for a long while, because I wanted them to get to know HIM, not his PhD. They would keep insulting him, and telling me he is stupid, etcetera, etcetera. It was only when I retorted, "if he is so stupid then why would he have a PhD.?" that they suddenly accepted him, and viewed him as intelligent. In the end, it was MY decision; not my parent's decision on who I spend the rest of my life with.