What would you do if you walked in on your partner cheating on you?

@Toofancy (548)
United States
March 16, 2009 8:11pm CST
This has not happened to me, but it does happen. I am not sure exactly what I would do. Has this happened to you? If it did happen to you, what would you do? Could you ever forgive your partner? Would you blame your partner or the other person?
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@pricelis (86)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I'm guessing cause its never happened to me either... I think I would drop jaw and then turn around and walk out. No words, no nothing.
@Toofancy (548)
• United States
17 Mar 09
That is probably the smartest thing to do! Thanks for responding.
@Dorrdavy (275)
• Jamaica
19 Mar 09
i have no idea, so many things would be going through my mind i'm not sure which one i would choose. you would have to blame your partner, he should know to be faithful
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@Toofancy (548)
• United States
22 Mar 09
I agree with you. I would definitely blame my husband, but more than likely I would blame them both. However, if the other person did not know your busband was married, it wouldn't really be her fault. But I think I would be so mad, I would still blame both of them... I don't think I would be very rational in a situation like that. Thanks for your reply!
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
Thank God it has NOT happened to me at all. If it does, I'm not sure what I can do with my capability. LOL! I doubt that I can forgive my partner.. and I'm so sure I wont make him (and the girl) forget what they did to hurt me like that. I'm the type that when you get me mad, I can b a real bad girl and make you suffer emotionally. I will go to the extremes to make you get hurt the way you hurt me. Since this situation is quite sensitive, I would be very very angry. Goodluck to my partner and I doubt he'd do it to the next girl he would be with...LOL!
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@Toofancy (548)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I don't think I would be able to forgive my partner either. I probably would not ever let him live it down. I would be very angry, too, but it would just hurt so bad, I don't know which emotion would be worst. Thanks for responding!
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
17 Mar 09
As it has never happened to me I can't say what I would do, but I would be shocked to say the least! Depending on the situation I might blame them both or I might only blame my husband. If the other person knew my husband is married then yes, I would definitely blame that person as well as my husband. However, if they did not know that my husband is married then no, I wouldn't blame the other person. An old neighbor of mine actually had this happen to him. Apparently he caught his wife cheating on him in their house. Needless to say he hated women after that. I hadn't learned about it until after my mom, sister, and I moved and my mom told me why he acted the way he did. I felt sorry for him after that.
@Toofancy (548)
• United States
22 Mar 09
As they say, It takes two to tango! But you are right, whether or not the other party knew your husband was married would be an important factor in placing blame. Thanks for your response!
• Italy
18 Mar 09
i will simply ask him why he did so.. then based on the answer, i will act! There's always a reason for an action..
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