Who usually cheat on a relationship? a man or a women

United States
March 17, 2009 1:56am CST
I ask myself this question who usually cheats in a relationship a man or a women? but then i think to myself why do they even cheat!They cheat because sometime they dont get the attention or the affection they want.so they go and look for it in another person.but i think that ususally both the man and the women cheats not only one person! so what do u guys think?
8 responses
@leicyn (96)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
I think its not a man or a woman who cheated. For me the one who cheated is the one who is not sincere to his or her partner. The person who didn't know how to loved and be loved. Cheating can be done with anybody , to anybody but that if you don't have respect to yourself. In the first place the cheaters cheat him or her self not his partner.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
24 Mar 09
The one who is dishonest and disloyal will cheat, the one who is of waivering mind and does not know the value of a relationship and faithfulness will cheat, irrespective of his/her gender. There are not set rules that men may cheat more than women or it vice versa, it will depend upon case to case. Your assessment also appear right to me, when one of the two fellows feels 'ignored', he/she start looking for other options.
• United States
24 Mar 09
Remember, it takes two to tango! Every time a man or a woman cheats- a man or a woman is there partner! Men are usually blamed for being unfaithful- but nothing would happen without the woman's cooperation. So every time a man cheats, a woman obliged! And vice-versa! So I would say- it's a 50/50 situation.
@kedves (728)
18 Mar 09
i do not understand why they cheat. if you go to shop and buy a car and it does not work you first try to fix it then if after that it still doesn't work then you get rid of it. I think relationship is same.. try to fix it first if you feel it is not working and if it can't be fixed then you have to move on. why stay in a relationship that does not work and then start cheating. its not fair on you or your partner. yo are only lying to yourself and to everyone that is meant to be close to you and dear to your heart. both men and women are equally to blame for cheating so maybe we should all accept blame and do our best to succeed in the relationship we choose and if not then we must be strong enough to accept things are not right. what we need is more honesty not only to our partners but also to ourselves.
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
In the cheating game, it's usually two sided. We cannot put the blame on either gender. Both are capable of cheating. As for my opinion, I may say that the person who's feeling insecure and wants to prove something is the one who cheats. Both men and women can feel insecure especially if he/she feels they cannot measure up with the qualities of their lover. I have male friends who gets to cheat to prove their maculinity. My girl friends says they cheat because they wanted to prove to their man that if he can do it, we can do it best. LOL.
• Italy
18 Mar 09
man is born poligamy minded! were it possible no man who marry only one woman, better, they wont marry at all... so they could **** who they want! i'm speaking from the point of view as a man! But i strongly believe the same applies to the women too.... so since the society bonds them to some moral laws, at the first weakness many fall to their origin!!
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
i just encountered and responded to the same discussion from another mylot user a while ago.but to answer your question,i think both sexes are cheaters or are capable of cheating.percentage of cheating women before may not be that great.. but with the word "double standard" slowly fading,women nowadays are kinda like into cheating also.personally,i see no sense in cheating your partner.there's no valid excuse for that. welcome to mylot! happy mylotting!
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
I think tahat the article really what happens in reality. Because many people are not contented in one and seeks for another one. Some just don't really care for his or her special one. And if this happens to a relationship, both will cheat each other. Both will hurt each other and maybe the other one will be much hurt than the otrher one.