Do you let your kids get dirty?

United States
March 17, 2009 8:47am CST
I saw a commercial where the mom has her baby in a bubble to keep him from getting dirty. What's with this? My sister-in-law is the same way. She has tons of wipes with her all the time and I've seen her give her kids 2 baths a day when they weren't even dirty. Now her oldest started kindergarten and she is sick all the time. She catches everything that comes through the school. My dad always told me you have to be exposed to germs in order to build an immune system and I learned the same thing in nursing school. I'm not saying my kids are pigs but I do let them play in the dirt. They hardly ever get sick, and if they do, it's usually because they caught it from their catch-all cousin. Do you let your kids get dirty or are you a bubble mom?
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@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
17 Mar 09
My kids love to get dirty! I must admit that I'm a germx freak and bathe them alot. But, if they want to get dirty I let them. My daughters love to wear dresses all the time, so I got them a ton of dresses that they can play and get dirty in. Once it was raining really hard out and there were mud puddles everywhere! I took my daughters out to play in the rain. They rolled around in puddles and threw mud on eachother and had a blast! Afterwards they went inside to take a bath. My neighbors all went ballistic on me for letting them do that. I told them to take it up with my mom. Haha. My mom used to let us do the same and it was always so much fun! We squished our bare toes in the mud and rode the water currents down the driveway and afterwards we got baths and she would fix grilled cheese sandwhiches and tomato soup. We would watch a movie and fall asleep from sweet exaustion! My grandma was picking on us because we don't have all the old hotwheel cars that we grew up with and she still has all my uncle's hotwheel cars. She asked me why we don't have them anymore and I laughed. It's because we used them outside! We made roads in the dirt and built little garages with the rocks and had got mud stuck in the wheel and all of that. My siblings and I are pretty sturdy people healthwise. We hardly ever get sick. My oldest daughter never gets sick either. My second daughter is getting better about it. When she was little she kept getting pnemonia and I freaked about that. I boiled all her bottles all the time and sprayed everthing with disinfectant and all of that. Then with my son I realized that most of that was not really needed and that as long as I kept him away from the sickly children at first that he would build a healthy immune system on his own. He has allergies and ear infections from time to time, but nothing like my second daughter was. I pretty much look back on my own life growing up and try to remember my happiest memories. I want my children to have happy memories too, so I let them do most of the stuff that I grew up doing. Though I don't think I will let them make homemade bows and arrows and spears and run about trying to 'get' eachother with them. Haha. No matter how fun that was when I was growing up... it's just not safe!
• United States
17 Mar 09
I don't have any of my old cars either for the same reason. My dad also made sure to often remind me about the collectible john deere tractors I ruined. Supposedly worth a fortune now...but it was fun. My favorite was when he made us some dirt hills. My friends and I made mud slides with the water hose. It was great.
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• United States
17 Mar 09
Haha, yes, we used to get on top of my grandpa's mulch pile and play king on the mountain! He would get so mad that his mulch was getting spread in places he didn't mean for it to get spread! We also used to climb in trash cans and roll down the hill in our back yard! Haha. Just last week my uncle and brother came out to my house and saw some of the neighborhood children riding bigwheels down the steep road in front of my house. They shook their heads over how dangerous those children were and where were their parents. I grinned and said 'probably the same place our parents were when we rode bigwheels down in the woods and crashed into trees constantly!' My uncle shrugged. 'you always were a little wild, Marie.' I laughed 'If I recall correctly, you are the one that taught that game to us!' Hehe. I lived next to my Uncle (3 years older than me) and my cousins (1 and 3 years older than me) all my life. That coupled with the fact that my parents had 7 children, we friggin got dirty all the time! Haha.
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@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I always let my kids get dirty. I remember growing up I spent all day outside, from morning until dinner then back out I went. Kids cant do that anymore without supervision. It's crazy. I always give my kids a bath at night so it washs right off. They jump in rain puddles, mud puddle and play in the sand all day during the summer. I think it's good for them to do this because then they wont get sick as often.
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• United States
18 Mar 09
That's awsome. I used to live in a neighborhood like that growing up. Where we live now with my children I wish it was like that. I would love my children to run wild and free like I did growing up. Most of the world isnt like that anymore. Your lucky to live on a road like that. :)
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
18 Mar 09
this is why we have soap and water. lol let the kids get dirty what the heck
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• United States
18 Mar 09
Lol. Short and to the point.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I have two all around boys. They stay dirty. Even after a bath, I have to sometimes send them back in. Both play football, baseball, and every other sport they can. I am always washing clothes and them. But they have a good time. It does not hurt anyone to get a little dirty or in their case alot dirty.
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• United States
17 Mar 09
Yes, sometimes a double bath can be necesary. lol Just means they're having fun.
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@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
17 Mar 09
You only get to be a kid once, so let them be kids. I have a really good pic of my two youngest with their faces so dirty. I couldn't resist the pic...dirty and all, they were having fun, hugging each other and laughing. I think that the more kids are exposed to dirt, the better immunity system they build up. Yes, it is okay to get dirty, but just make sure to clean them up at night before going to bed. Apparently, we eat a ton of dirt by the time we die, so let them play in the dirt, it won't hurt them and you might even be doing them a favor.
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• United States
17 Mar 09
See...dirt makes the best kodak moments. :)
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@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
17 Mar 09
Yes, it does. :)
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• United States
17 Mar 09
I let them get dirty most of the time. As long as its not constant. I dont allow them to go out and get dirty if I know we have somewhere to go, it would take too much time to get all 3 of them in and out of the tub in a semi timely manner and then to have to get dressed all over again...FORGET THAT! lol. They get a bath once a night so a little dirtiness wont kill them. I have them watch where they are getting dirty at though....they know not to play in areas where there may be glass or where dogs and cats tend to be. Mine arent pigs either butthey have their fair share of dirt fun!
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• United States
17 Mar 09
Yes, getting three bathed before an outing is horrible. Plus, tough on the hot water. If we go out it's usually in the mornings so a night time bath is sufficiant.
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• Canada
17 Mar 09
i figure let kids be kids. my mother gets upset with me when i let me little girl jump in rain puddles. there are times when i won't let her get too dirty, when we are on our way somewhere and can't get changed but at home it's time to play
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• United States
17 Mar 09
I feel the same way. I only wish I could be as excited about a mud puddle as my kids get. Let them enjoy it while life's simple things are still fun.
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
hi there vickie..how are you and your daughter? yes, i do let my child get dirty so that there body have the immunity of adjusting from dirty things.. i let my child play in the rain, play muds, going out in the sun..it's needed to let them experience being dirty sometimes because it's also can build there being independent that they can express what they wanted to do and maybe they can be more creative when we let them expose them outside our house.. happy mylotting..
• United States
18 Mar 09
Yes, I'm big letting the imagination and creativity flow around here. I want them to be as imaganitive as possible. Reality can wait.
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I'm not a bubble mom. I guess I'm in between b/c my sil lets her kids play in the mud and get really dirty. As long as my girls have the right clothes on I let them have their fun. I think our immune system is building up alot right now. Our family of 4 has been sick off and on since Janurary. As soon as 1 is getting over it another one gets sick or hubby brings it home from work. I do freak out when they get their clothes dirty though if its good clothes. My daughter goes by my sil house and the clothes are always ruined when she gets home. Not sure what in the world they do. Once she said they didn't even go outside so that means her house is just that dirty. Not saying my house is spotless but my white socks don't turn black after walking on my floor.
• United States
20 Mar 09
Yes, I try to watch the clothes too. My older two are pretty good about wearing old stuff to play in. I'm still working on the little one. It is hard to keep everyone healthy, when they are all going in different directions. Of course, being the mom, I've been known to get sick more than once before it leaves. I can't imagine clothes being ruined without even going outside. I can't keep everything spotless with so many and we are always busy but it's not that bad. It's worse in the summer with the kids out of school and everyone in and out. I always feel bad if the house is upside down when my hubby gets home. He tells me atleast he can tell I tried because it may still be a mess but it's a different mess than when he left. lol
@parvezjs (422)
• India
17 Mar 09
Yes as of now I don't have my own kid. Going to have very soon. But I have a four years old nephew, we let him play as he wants, we just keep a watch that he don't put his hands in his mouth. Kids should be left free to play as they want. They should not be stopped all the time don't do this and don't do that. Kids should play until they get tired. I will do the same for my baby. I will let him/her play as much as he/she wants and get dirty, I will say:"I am there to clean you baby".
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• United States
17 Mar 09
Congratulations and good luck!
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I let my kids get dirty, but within reason. I don't let them wallow in the mud like a pig, but I don't put them in a bubble either. My kids don't get sick all that often except my daughter gets a stuffy nose a lot, but I have a hard time telling if it is sick or allergies.
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• United States
17 Mar 09
There's always a limit. :) Yeah, one of my girls has allergies too.
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@sharay (2769)
• India
18 Mar 09
I was quite concerned before since she is my only child, but my father and hubby was agianst it, they always asked me to let her play in anything she wants and that way, she will improve her immune system..so, now-a-days i dont control her, the only thing i control is taking bath, she often wants to play in water, water is her favorite, she is 3 now and she has played in all kinds of water, sea, falls, river, lake, pools, etc...and even at home, whenever i am busy with work, she manages to get into the bathroom, but she has not yet got a cold because of it
• United States
18 Mar 09
I have a water baby too. She always loved it. She's 8 now and we never had to teach her to swim. She just did it.
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@sharay (2769)
• India
18 Mar 09
thats great...even my daughter is learning to swim, she can swim up to 10 feet now, just started learning, seeing her interest with water, we wanted to put her into a swimming class
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
17 Mar 09
Yes i let my kids get dirty, and at the end of the day they always got a bath. Kids are not allowed to be kids anymore. When i was a kid we played outside all day long, when we came in to eat we always washed up. Your dad is a very smart man, you should listen to him, a little dirt did not hurt anyone. Our bodies were made to fight germs and build up a immunity to them, but if you don't get exposed to them how are you going to do that.
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• United States
17 Mar 09
Exactly.. thanks for the remark about my dad. He was a smart man. Just lost him 3 months ago. He was the biggest influence on my parenting.
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@Archie0 (5636)
18 Mar 09
Ofcourse kids should get dirty. because then if they are not exposed to the dirt they are going to grow too delicate. and this might lead them to become more prone to ciseases because then their body when once grown will be exposed to dust for the first time and then they might be getting allergic to certain normal things like cold or cough because their body never experinced this earlier, it is very necessary to experience everything in the life so that we get strong enough to fight them the next time. happy mylotting
• United States
18 Mar 09
Yes, experience is everything.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I can't stand to see my grandchildren get dirty, i know Kids will get dirty, but If I have the Twins, I always will bring another chang of clothes for them, I really don't like to see any Kids dirty.
• United States
18 Mar 09
Lol. I don't mean all the time. Clean up when needed, but just letting them play outside and get dirty sometimes.
@Foxxee (3651)
• United States
18 Mar 09
I was always taught to keep clean daily. By washing up you are keeping the germs away. So I think washing up daily & washing hands throughout the day is good. I do let my kids get dirty, but I also keep them clean. There is a difference in getting mudd all over you & being germy.... everyone should take baths daily if they are able to...
• United States
18 Mar 09
Yes, I do make mine wash their hands regularly. Then if one of us gets sick I become a germ freak. I wash everything constantly and attack with the bleach and lysol. The kids think it's funny. There are five of us, so one if gets it, we could all get it. Then just keep giving it back and forth. I do my best to prevent it. There is a difference.
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
17 Mar 09
This morning I took my son outside to play. With the warm weather all the snow is melting, so naturally the yard is all muddy. He had so much fun splashing in mud puddles, picking up handfuls of mud and making pies, cakes, and all sorts of things. He fell and was covered head to toe. He reached out to me with his muddy hands, and I picked him up and hugged him. When we were done, we were both covered in mud and had to change clothes, but we had a great time. There was mud on the floor, and I had some laundry to do, but I loved it. It is part of being a kid. I don't mind when he gets dirty, because I know there's nothing wrong with it, and that it's lots of fun for him. That's why we have a bathtub I saw that commercial, and I thought of a few people I know like that. It's a shame they can't relax and let their kids be kids.
• United States
18 Mar 09
That's sounds like fun. I may do that with my kids today.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
18 Mar 09
My kids are little dirt magnets! They can go outside for five minutes and come back in the house looking like they were rolling in the mud! I figure, they wash. They make soap and water for a reason. The only thing I do not like is whn they track mud and muck into the house!
• United States
18 Mar 09
I know how you feel. It's spring break here and almost everytime the kids walk in the door, there's a mess.
@mamalev (264)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
I have a 2-year old boy and he's a very active kid but he has asthma. I let him get dirty once in a while so that he'll have fun but then he can't play in the rain like his cousins and it saddens me to see him crying while looking on at his cousins playing in the rain. It's ok for him if it's warm outside but if it's cold no can do or we'll end up visiting his doctor again. But now that it's summer here I don't have to worry about him getting sick so he can get dirty all he wants just don't play with water.
• United States
18 Mar 09
Aww. Bet he will glad for the warm weather. I have afriend who's daughter has asthma. Even in the summer we have to slow her down and I hate doing it. She's an only child so when she gets in with mine she has a blast, but she will get too hot. Her little cheeks turn red and if you don't stop her she starts coughing. It's for her own good, but it makes you feel horrible.
• United States
17 Mar 09
I don't have kids yet, but I have seen alot of moms that always have to keep their kids clean, and can't stand for them to be dirty. I really hope that I will not be that kind of mother. I watch kids, and when they are in my care I let them be kids. I don't send them home filthy or anything, but I don't see a problem with letting them have fun, be kids, and get messy.
• United States
18 Mar 09
Yes, I worked at a gym daycare. There wasn't much to do and they could only be left for a max of two hours. Sometimes the moms would come in and freak because the floor was covered in toys. It was just square room. I never made them pick it up. I figured they get enough of that at home. With me it was just play.