What type friend he is?

@kumarpslv (3216)
India
March 17, 2009 9:07am CST
Though I am having so many friends, I am very close to one. He used to help others always in financial matter. When some one comes for money ,he will be giving without any hesitation to them how much ever he is having in his hand.He will be doing this kind of helps in front of others, mainly so that others can know about him,of course he likes that. Well if he stop with this,it will be very fine.After the money in his hand is vanished,he will approach me and lend money by giving a assurance of returning in a short period. But he never returned such money to me,but three times he has helped me also when I was not having money. But if we compare the amount he got from me,which is very very less. After some days, the other friends used to return the money to him what they have got some days back from him. But he is not at all retuning it to me, in turn. I am not able to ask him, as he has helped me earlier. Another thing, when he ask money from me, he used to do it when I am alone and he will not tell anybody about this, and also he will ask me to not to tell any one.Though I know very well he is cheating me and I am in the mood of avoiding his friendship,I am not able to do. How can I avoid him or is there any way to change him..of course I feel he will never change himself. Please suggest some advice in this regard.
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2 responses
• Canada
17 Mar 09
HI, The only advice i have for you would be to stop lending him money and if he asks why, you can just let him know that until he pays you back what you have lent him its better that you just not go any furhter lending him more. I dont really think its something you need to end a friendship over or to avoid him
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@kumarpslv (3216)
• India
17 Mar 09
That's why I am hesitating to take any decision. Thanks for your advice.
@sajuman (1854)
• India
18 Mar 09
I have lot of friends..but i have a special frien,A Friend... who knows what i am saying, even if you are not talking... understands what my feeling, even if you don’t understand your own feelings... will always forgive me, usually before i forgive myself
@kumarpslv (3216)
• India
18 Mar 09
Thanks for your appreciation