It breaks your heart......

it is indeed the most painful part in loving. but as they say you'll never know you love unless you get hurt. besides, id rather suffer the pain alone. than seeing him suffer more because he's not happy with me anymore. i know its painful seeing him happy with someone else than seeing him dying in chains of our relationship. it will painful for me to set him free but it will be more painful for me if he stays with his mind and heart that belongs to someone else. i think that's how love really is. anyway happy mylotting!

i never experience this kind of situation..it hurts a lot,if this happens to me i must let him go and be happy for him.though its hard to move on,i'll just accept the fact that his not happy with me.someday i'll be bless with a better man than him.if we will continue our relationship it might end up to a unsuccessful marriage or relationship..worst!end up hating each other!have a nice day!

I will just let him go coz I feel insulted if the one I love is not happy with me. If he is not happy, I can't be happy either coz it's very unnatural to pretend. I will not want to see him anymore till the love I hold to him is gone and I will find the one who really cares about me and always trying to make ma happy. I can't fall in love anyone that doesn't love me. Don't see him living happily with others and then you will feel better.

theres this girl i liked that i never met, shes from another country, but we chat alot on msn, then one day, well on my birthday she says she has a boyfriend, she and him hooked up the day before, well i felt sad, but i thought maybe its for the best, she would be better off with a guy who she actually knows in person, i always though i had a chance wit her, but turns out i dont,now she hardly talks to me on msn. but as long as shes happy well den im glad for her

If love has gone stale between you and your other half, then it is time to consider giving him his freedom. Forcing him to be with you will only make your life a misery if he is only there with you because he have to but his heart is with someone else. He might think he has finally left the tiger's den but only to regret later that he has in fact landed himself in a crocodile's mouth. Men will never learn their lessons if they never suffer mentally in the hands of other women.

I would let him go.

This is not something that my husband and I are going to have to worry about. We were friends for a lot of years, and discussed a lot of stuff, before we got into a romantic relationship, and had that relationship for a few more years, before we finally got married. We did not want to rush into thinks.

Good day Ellie! ...when i love, i forget myself for the Loved One, so... if i discover the person is Unhappy with me, i explain the facts clearly and i quit ASAP ** Because, i will be more happy to see my Love Happier even with Another! ...wishing you the Best! Ellie! Dania the Poet & Artist in the Heart

I was the one that wasn't happy with the person that loved me. But all situations and circumstances are different. I did finally meet someone that takes me up to the stars every night, and flying above the clouds every day, no matter what has happened. I have a smile on my face even when we are fighting because the fights are just ridiculous. My ex is happy to see that I am happy. He now understands that things just weren't suppose to work the way he wanted and wished for them to work, but he was partially at fault for what happened. So it all depends on circumstances. I rather the person be happy in the situation but their are ways to work at things before it gets to a level that someone is no longer happy, its just a matter of both parties working on it.

ofcourse it really really hurts and it will break my heart.it happened to me before that the one i love is happy with someone else eventhough i gave everything to him.but what can i do if he's more happy without me.i tried to let him go and set him free but someone told me to fight for my right and fight for my children.when my husband told me that he's not happy with me anymore,it kills my heart.but that was not the first time he did that to me.there was a first time that he told me that he's not happy with me anymore and he's in love with someone else.but im still there for him.but he did it again.well im stupid and i know that already.but the next time that it will happen again,i will really set him free and try to move on and find my happiness because i know that i also deserve to be happy.i also want that someone will treat me like i am a very special person.im also tired hurting by someone.

There is not much that you can do when the love of your life is with somebody else. You can't force people to talk to you, just go about your life...someday they might decide they miss you and call to have a chat...or call to say..."I still love you!" I'm such a romantic that I believe things like this can happen. It just reminds me of that one song where the woman moves to "Austin" and she calls the guy and the message he has on his answering machine..."If this is Austin...I still love you!" That is the most romantic thing a guy could do in my opinion. Life is to short to spend it fighting, so if there is someone out there that you think you should be with, then fight for your relationship. Sometimes, you know when you have something worth fighting for.

this happend to me already! i had a 5 years relationship with the guy i tot i will marry! and on our 4th year i see him fallin out of love little by little! i tot it was somthing natural specially coz we know each other since birth. he lives just across my house! i feel im losing him .... so i decided to let him go.. and be happy with the other girl. his stayin with me coz he feels guilty to break up not becoz he loves me, i told him it's ok and i understand! now im very much happy with my new bf and we are getting married next year. while ex bf is trying to win me back... but.. im scared that he would fall out of love again so i said "NO"

I can understand what your saying, If I didn't already know, I would have to try to understand why the one I love wasn't happy with me. Also, I'm sure I understand completely, but if you love someone that loves someone else, are you talking about being (inlove)? Thats a bit different, from loving someone as a person. Theres never enough of that. IMO